Whom will you choose ... and .. why?
whom will you choose possibly to marry?
1. somebody whom you love but he/she doesn't love you.
2. somebody who loves but you don't love him/her.
3. none
I would choose somebody who has beautiful face and hot body...thats it!
what if that beautiful face/hot had a lot of STDs?
somebody who loves though i don't love her
Tricky question man. Initially, I thought I'd go for someone who I loved ( even if she didn't love me ) but I suppose I'd just go for someone who loved me than someone who didn't!
.....i choose someone..who has no any STD,no any kind of Disses,.... who love me and i love her ...that makes both life happy and successful....and she should be little hot and spicy...bcz,... that will gives more flavour to spend life together.
Did not see any good option ...
Dont worry much just chill....does not matter how hard we try cuz we all gonna end up where we are supposed to. Marraiges are made in heaven
why does this question has to be mutually exclusive man
It is same as if you were to choose between throwing yourself in a deep gorge or you being hit by a huge fallen log when you were in deep gorge?
I 'd therefore go for 3.
ntaure05 : obviously, if there is affection between both parties, the choice is easy and "yes" but what if such condition described above is prevailing.......
chiya_tea : the question is what is the best choice among these three.....
novaguy83 : thats why i got the third option....
youwanpras : i like ur argument.....
Last edited: 08-Dec-09 09:17 PM
I think Second option ...is good
youwanpras...hahahah...i agree!
I guess it's better to marry someone who loves you rather than someone who you love. As it's been said you will be happy that way.........
Also, you will have to work hard to impress the girl that you love; but on the other hand the girl that already loves you don't need to impress her:)
I think it's a win win situation here ahhah...............................
But, I have always been attracted to girl that I like then the girls that like me heheh ..............
Peace!
ahead_of_the_rest : I do not completely diagree with you. We usually are more attracted to girls whom we like than the girls who like us.... but its time to make a decision....which in the given circumstance hard to make....
For me the answer is "none" or wait for some time to see if feelings drive the other way....anyways, looking for some thoughful and rational decisions that sajhayans would suggest/make here...
definatley the one who loves you...you can never have too much of looveee
another marriage thread? :) is it that time of the year? ;)
anyways pertaining to the OP's question...
WTFFFF!!!!!!!!!! (pardon my expression)
whom will you choose possibly to marry?
1. somebody whom you love but he/she doesn't love you.
-- if he/she doesnt love you and you choose to marry and they love somebody else... waiiit a second..this sounds like arranged marriage..... he/she has a lover already but is pressurized to marry..and there u are..happy as a butterfly..madly in love with his/her pics.. NO!
2. somebody who loves but you don't love him/her.
-- so theres this guy/girl whos madly in love with u and wud do anything for u. but... you really dont love him/her because ur already in love with the person ur marrying from my answer to #1 above. Why would u choose to live with someone you dont love....for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!. Its like being forced to live with that cousin who always bullies you and makes you lie to his parents to cover his ass up.
And as Mr.Youwanpras has subtly highlighted the projected danger of choosing either #1 or #2 and i dont think i wanna either throw myself into a gorge nor get crushed by a HUGE FALLEN LOG whilst in that dark gorge, #3 seems like a good option, everything else considered.
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