Race Ain't Matter When you Date!!!!

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rahashya

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You were in trouble when that Girrafe was riding over your ass. I wonder when you will stop posting non sense in sajha for TRP.

blingbling

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Damn SIS is desperate.....

She needs to get laid soon.......

mcmxc

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A terrible Troll you are! And I was starting to think everything you said at least made sense in an underlying fashion, even if it does not quite cater to the taste of our fellow brethrens here. Am I astounded, or disappointed or should I have stayed mute? Let me arrange my thoughts here, and guard it with that Velociraptor!

Sexy In Sari

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Rahashya!!!, Blingbling!!! Mcmxc!!! Come on!!! Don't throw your anger on me if you cant go for shopping on Black Friday. Well, Anyway, who has the money..its recession..Lets be happy!!!

mcmxc

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And I thought I was praising your mettle, and myopic yet obtuse sense of humor. Black Friday! An excuse to lament or perverse? I guess I failed to bond, awaiting your new rollerball!

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And I thought I was praising your mettle, and myopic yet obtuse sense of humor. Black Friday! An excuse to lament or perverse? I guess I failed to bond, awaiting your new rollerball!

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Disclaimer : My response are based on my personal experience and observation. You have the right to disagree or agree and I'm not responsible if you get offended by any reason whatsoever.

I do not think OP posted any non sense question. Instead of narrowing down to a particular case, I think people need to look at the bigger picture.

"Every time, When Nepalese guys talk to me, they always wants to know my last name"

It's all about mentality and how the society and tradition affects an individual. Most of the time, Nepalese men (not all) think about all sort of compatibility. They are more moved by what society finds appropriate in regards to maintaining relationship. Racism or call it caste discrimination is a huge deal in Nepalese society. The new generation of educated Nepalese could deny being racist but everyone is racist to certain extend, only the degree varies. Whether to satisfy their parents or to be acceptable by the society, race plays a huge role.

"Actually, after long time what I have learn is, they are more confident to talk with a girl whose last name is same as theirs'"

Again, pointing back the same phenomenon. I do not think that they are acutely interested in your last name rather they are interested in your caste. Your last name will point to your caste. I am assuming most of the Nepalese men you date are in a position where they want to settle down. To pursue this they need someone compatible with their caste so that later the society does not look down upon their relationship. I am also assuming that you are dating Nepalese men somewhere around 23-29 age range who are fall under DJM (Degree Job Marriage) trend. To ensure that they keep their parents happy and to be widely accepted by the society they are forced to check the caste compatibility.

" I couldn't even think about Nepalese guys dating Latino, black, Pacific Islanders."

Very true. Below are some of the reasons;

1. Majority are students who work and go school full time, hence they don't have time to date even Nepalese forget about other race.
2. Most of them are interested in getting drunk till they puke and are always involved in Nepalese only party. Hence, chances of socializing with women of other race are minimal.
3. Majority of Nepalese try to restrict themselves in a Nepalese only community. Where ever they go they have Nepalese around like school, work, parties vacation etc.
4. Fear of rejection and lack of confidence. How many times will you see a Nepalese dude walking up approaching a blond or brunette at a bar?
5. Most cannot think outside the box in regards to race and interracial relationship.

I am not sure why majority of Nepalese community overlook or don't pay any attention to issues that are important. Although OP comments may be self centered but why do people feel butt hurt when they have to talk about sensitive issue? I understand that society plays a vital role in shaping our perception in regards to how things are supposed to be done but there are times one needs to think critically.

Some personal thoughts:

Yes, I agree "Race Ain't matter when you date!!!." I date all kinds of women regardless to race and cultural background. Now I'm not going to prepare a brag list here but however I will tell you this; focus on individual personality more then judging people with their color. Yes, race and cultural background does play an essential role in everyone's lives but it should not be considered a major no-go when it comes to dating or relating.

soullesseye

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wwhat are ppl fussing about again? ^o)

i thought this was cool...n shown in a way that would be understood by people like me, and like you too. It shows a giraffe getting it on with a mule(?), and the author might be trying to tell us that we might as well get on some international boot!e. And preferably post some pictures here on sajha, for others who are yet to grasp the idea providing a more literal picture!

soulless

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I am still in love with SIS but I had to flag the post.

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damn! SIS what did u eat before posting this thread? horny goat weed! anyway! I am the Giraffe and u are the donkey !

U LOVING IT?

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oho so it was a black friday hangover............. am i right sexy in sari ?

you waited in line to buy that thing you wanted all year long.... and bingo! there is black friday and its half off...... you couldn't resist..... you get in the store and laid your eyes on that shiny box with a sigh of relief..... but wait there is a problem......... you are not the only one who wanted that shiny box.......and there 2 more people.

the other guy who wanted it was a black guy....

call it a mere coincidence or destiny black guy on a black friday ????

so you guys decide and talk it over and go to the bathroom together.......and came out panting and messed up hair.....you came out and the big shiny box was gone......... damn the 3rd guy bought it...

then came the moment of self realization , it was not about black friday but it was about passing the racial barrier.......doing something amazing.......be out of the league..

then you turn around and say "can we go to my place and play a game, ?"

"what game ?" asks the black man with a dilated eye....

"the game in which I play donkey and you act like a giraffe ," moans sexy in sari......

damn you are such a nut job sexy in sari..... I love you.....