It is hard to give any comment.

But what is ur parents thinking about you when you will get married. Talk to your parents that you need to get married, and stop that old relationship and be free do not bring any such relationship, do not take chance.

I would say ask him one day when you both are close and make it clear will he marry you or not . If not then Stop that relationship you will get some one better then him.

When you get the idea that he is no more intrested on him. Then just be with him and focus on ur carrier, and ur future and when you get better job any where just go. and from there you will cut him. but make sure if you meet him then do not let your self back to the past.

If you have good job your level of confidence will be high and then u will select the boys not the boys will select you. 

Alina,

Considering the nature of the post, I am led to believe that you are very young. Half a decade later you would presumably regret that you happened to post this in sajha. We are not shrinks, and other than empathizing with you in your so called condition we cannot be of any help to you. Talking about empathy, I do not know  both you and your boyfriend, perhaps you are right about your side of the story but then perhaps he is right too. If he is a whimsical and impulsive individual you could also be an materialism zealot or an effusively sentimental girly girl who gets into his nerves all the time.

I have been brutally honest, I apologize if it hurts you. But these posts only evoke unnecessary sympathies from others or lewd comments from people like Nas.

Alina

Forget relationships and learn how to relate.

Once you are in a relationship you start taking each other for granted– that's what destroys all love affairs. The woman thinks she knows the man, the man thinks he knows the woman. Nobody knows either! It is impossible to know the other, the other remains a mystery. And to take the other for granted is insulting, disrespectful.

To think that you know your MAN is very, very ungrateful. How can you know the MAN?  They are processes, they are not things. The MAN that you knew yesterday is not there today. So much water has gone down the Ganges; HE is somebody else, totally different. Relate again, start again, don't take it for granted.

And the man that you slept with last night, look at his face again in the morning. He is no more the same person, so much has changed. So much, incalculably much has changed. That is the difference between a thing and a person. The furniture in the room is the same, but the man and the woman, they are no more the same. Explore again, start again. That's what I mean by relating.

Relating means you are always starting, you are continuously trying to become acquainted. Again and again, you are introducing yourself to each other. You are trying to see the many facets of the other's personality. You are trying to penetrate deeper and deeper into his realm of inner feelings, into the deep recesses of his being. You are trying to unravel a mystery which cannot be unraveled. That is the joy of love: the exploration of consciousness.

Wow,

Sajha is turning into somekind of an Oprah show. Well, for better or worse, keep it up

@ gurl_power

"Make him feel sorry"??? wtf !! That's the main reason relations don't work...Why do boys have to say sorry even if he didn't do anything?? i don't get this...I bet you are still single..

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