America k k na painchha bhnanera aaiyo.
Chokta khana gayeki budi jholma dubera mari bhane jasto bho.
Kam chhaina.....
20 ghanta shcoolma kam garya chha.
Bahir kam garau bhane kam chhaina, kasle khojdinchha, aful khojna gayo kasaile chindaina, ss le bhanchha.
Roommate haru testai chhan.
Aaafna keti lyaka chhan chikera baschhan appartmentma ......
Nepali keti haru pani kati bhalu huna sakeka...aja yo sanga bholi tyo sanga.....
Jati ramra bhaye pani mera jyapulte ganaune roommate sanga hanibaschhan.
Muji bhat pani kahile khana paidiana.....
Afule pakayo arule khaidinchha.....arule pakako afulai rakhididaina....
Manko baha pokhau bhane sabai busy busy bhanchhan kasali bhanau.
Sabaile haso udauchhan.
Schoolko fee tirna nasakera ba lai paisa pathaideu bhanna pani sakdina.
Jagga bandaki rakhya chha nepala....sahu haru pani paisa le le bhanda hun.
Bau haptai pichhe alikati paisa bhaye pathaide na bhanchhan.
mareko juni jasto bhaiyo. Laajai lagchha.
Eso gf banau na ta baha pokna bhane pani paisa nabhaye pachhi jati handsome bhaye pani kehi lachhar pato lagne rahenachha,
Padna pani man lagdaina.khai k garne garne.....
Yesto hudo raichha america. Feri yehi afna frenharu darho kampauchhan.....
Paisa paisa bhanera dikka parchhan........choreko paisale gas, rent sabai uthauchhan....
Muji timema paisa diyena bhane kich kich garera hairan
Mero lag america phapena ...Nepal pani kasari farkane ...
Aba khai yo jiban nai bhagwanlai arpan gardinu parla jasto chha.
hey the issue is damn true that i had to register and create a nickname to post my message.
it's simply true khatpate.
the condition could be better over here.Hats off to you for speaking my mind as well.
see even i have been working as makeshift gardener, painter(wall,fence),janitor and what not.you can find these works but not easily.things will definitely change as time pass by.
I believe these all hardships will mould us to a better being.
oh yeah!!! wonderful thread........bro>>>> it is true that life is struggle......u'll see lot's of ups & down,espacially in student life like ours.....i also went through lots of difficult situations when i first came here...i hope your situation will be normal in coming days......yeah!!!!as others said before..stick to your goal, search work on/off campus,read book,do exercise gym/running/swimming...etc.. yoga...hehehehehhe for real....make yr daily routine/schedule...try to make some friends.....but it is true that nepali friends.........>>>>SUCKS....hehehehehhe u know i'm saying ....make some american friends...... and girlfriend...,,,,,,,..it would be AWESOME ............. for real....
see brother , all these voices speaking one language, spitting out one sentiment? we all are on the same boat bro.. just relax and work hard.. take your chances.. look for opportunities.. study hard and get scholorships.. don't hesitate to beg for scholorships..most scholorships are begged than earned... remember that. .tahts the secret.. you have to beg and beg and beg for scholorships.. go talk to your dean, IP advisor, your faculty , your advisor.. and beg, hardcore begging bro.. go like everyday infront of their door and cry and whatnot...seriously, i've seen so many indians and Nepalis getting scholorships like this and later they say they earned it with their good grades.. all b.s .. the secret is begging... so beg... sounds so cheap , but it's the reality.. it will help you a lot... but you need to have good gpa too.. people can help those who can help themselves, remember dat...
and don't hesitate to work off campus.. find your ways.. apply for off campus work authorization..that helps a lot and it's easliy applied.. and most of the time comes in mail as quick as 6 week( for my cousin here in colorado).. so do something.. make changes...
oh!!! my bad ................................ aarkai paarechha ii3...................well enjoy it..
Yekloyatri, If I really wanted to be critical towards your "postings" I'd make you shit in your pants! Reread my first reply over and again and you'll get a clear cut message and would you mind reading the guy who followed up's post too? What the F$$$ are you on about man?
Khatepate has CLEARLY stated that his intention of posting this thread was not to entertain others but you halfwit made fun of the poor guy's thread by using the same old ghisa pita Nepali formula that's typically used to produce the "superhit nepali chalachitras". Try to think bro about your illogical analysis on Khatepate's posting. Live and let live! Dont just live and make fun of others who want to live as well.
If you think that you're this brainy smart kid in the block then you gotta know that with every bad comes something good too and I said something good about the bad that came out of your buttery fingers. Buttery in the sense that your sole purpose was not just to be a "cool" kid while mocking this poor lad but also to be disrespectful. Katai monthly salary wala job payeko jasto cha ni bro le haina ? Bewakoof mula, hawa taal ma udaune arulai ? Tessai mapain gardai aru ko marma ma noon chardo raicha. huh..
BTW where in Texas are you located at Khatepate bro? Ma milyo bhane yesso kaam khojidinchu. I've got a few good friends out there.
Khatepate bro,
If you're in Dallas, TX and are looking for out of campus job, check
www.eknazar.com site and go to Dallas. There are a plenty of jobs available at the site for the DFW metroplex-both part and full time positions. This site is created and maintained by Indian/Pakistan people and they are looking for students/people from Nepal,India, PAK, you know what I mean.
Good Luck to you!
I found this article very much realistic. All I can say is that I had similar life as the opener of this thread revealed . well I have now Green card and six digit job but still life sucks here.I never feel that I ever belong this country. Just work in week days counting the days for weekend.Just I work for Myliving and enjoy the job too but I don't have any emotionational attachement with these Americans. I don't know why?Just at last I would like to say to the opener of this thread "keep going" .I don't know your expectation and academic level but I am sure you will make lot better life compared to these DV folks.Just it is the matter of time.
Gamma
Hello,
To Gammaknife,
I am sorry to divert the topic, but this is for gammaknife. I feel really sorry for you. Having 6 or was it 7 digit salary (did anyone ask for it... btw?) and feeling NOT belonging must be awful for you. Please email me if I can do anything for you.
TO khatpate,
Just the fact that you posted this article (I am assuming most of the posted is true) in your situation and in such a way to attract mostly genuine responses. I am sure you will go places. Please give me your contact number so that I can contact you when I need any help or maybe perhaps humor. :) Keep it up.
Thanks to all who read my posting.
This message is to MR BKB.
Brother or Sister, I dont think what I wrote is funny.
And my intention was not to make funny or attract responses as you thought.
I even didnt know many people in here had gone through same situation and even tried to help me. I had not expected that.
I had no place to go and tell my genuine feeling. I just wrote it because there was noonw to listen.
Anyways ...you probably dont know because you had not faced those kind of problems or may be you just forgot your situation because you made some money working in gas.
aba huda hudai khatepate bhai lai yo thread "genuine responses" pauna lai gareko psadyantra ho bhandine, bhayena ni, aafnai mutu bhitra chiyaera hera ta, khokro cha ki k ho?
aani feri arko lai 6 digits fix digit bhanna parne, bill gates nai bhaye arko kuro! ......junga muthaera.......
Can't believe that people are trying to look for "humor" in a posting that is full of "marma and dukkhas". And for F***'s sake this isnot the thread to show-off. Stick your 6 figure salary in your arse. Muji 6 figure kamayera ni shanti mildaina re. Tyo New York ko 250 dollar per slice parne restaurant ma khana khancha ki ke ho tyo manche le? Ferrari chadhne jasto dhak dhakku lagaunchan!
People and and the halfwits, if you want to show off or analyzie Khatepate's post then do us all a favor, boil a bucket of water and cleanse your soul! F***ing morons!
This is by far the best thread I’ve come across in Sajha. Khatepate bhai, as most of the people said, that is not unusual. I bet, about 90 % of us went through the same situation at one time. Life isn’t easy in America. But that doesn’t mean you have to give up your dreams. Just keep on working on whatever you came America for and I’m sure you will experience the difference in a near future. I can go on and on about this……… but I hope you got the point.
khatepate........I feel your pain man...........can oyu tell us when you can transfer??
because if you can....come to Boston...join a community college ...go to school for two days in a week and work the rest 5 days ....and if thats what you decide you want to do than let me know ...I have a lot of connections here in boston for you to find a job..
either convienent stores, liquour stores , restaurants ets...........I hope this will help you...to earn money and to go to school and later transfer to a good college when you have saved a good amount............Bro we all have been through terrible times here in US at one point of time......so most of us know your feeling....and feel for you ...but you will survive..just make the right choice .......and dream big.....your parents are great to have sacrificed so much to have you here.......life here is not how people back in Nepal think it is...and I dont think they will understand too.....but my point is if you choose to help your family NOW...then see if you can transfer to Boston ...I will help you find a job ...............and a place to live with roommates so you save money too. so keep us updated.
Dai, bhai sathiharu,
sabai lai thanks a lot.
Many people tried to help me. Thanks a lot.
MAddog! thanks brother...so generous of you.
But you know I have already registered for fall semseter so wont be able to come this semester.
And yesterday I got a 20 hour job in a icecream store of an Indian guy.
I am little be releaved.
..... र अन्त्य मा खतेपाते ले जोब पाएच !
- लौ भन्ने लाई फुल को माला सुन्ने लाई सुन को माला यो कथा नेपालमा जाला फेरी कोसैलाई पर्दा साझा मा आउउला !
नो ओफ्फेन्स है ब्रो! फेल्त गूड् कोज यू गोत अ जोब, सो तेसै जोक गरेको नि यार !
may this thread go down in history as an inspiration to all.....a lesson to learn to believe in your dreams, keep doing what you do best, look back into your own times and support them who need your help.
and you khatepate, my friend, are an amazing person, you WILL someday reach the apex of your dreams!
wfarrrt ke ho sathiiiiiiiiii
oh broooo ..i have 1prob....i just get sarnarthi in usa n ijust wanna go to ktm is it possible to go there dhotibhai give us vissa for that if kasailai thaa chaa bhanay kerpaya let me know please........thanks
congratulation katpate
MULA AMERICA bata GANJAR(carrot) AMERICA bhayo aba bhaat ta khai ice cream tanna khana payincha
you wrote-....... bhat pani kahile khana paidiana.....
Afule pakayo arule khaidinchha.....arule pakako afulai rakhididaina... it made me laugh sabai tira ustai hudo rahicha
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