Who should ask for a first date???
Who should ask for a first date a boy or girl???? It would be intersting to talk in Neapli/American context???
Thanx.
Asking for a first date should not be a gender issue. I think asking for a date depends on how much interested are u in the girl/guy and how much time can u commit to it. Hey.. i have seen ppl who wait for years just to talk to a girl or a guy. I donot think that kind of time commitment is needed. Just ask him/her out.. there isnt much to loose even if someone denies to go for a date.
If you snooze, you lose. The worst that can ppen is you will get a negative answer. so what? Just ask and get over with it.
The 'asking out' ritual is a little different in the nepalese perspective because when someone says 'no' it does not end there. The person saying no will tell his/her friends .. ' ohh guess what this person (insert name, address, fathers, mothers name, friends name etc history everything known), asked me out and I said no.' There is some pride in even being able to say it.
Next time you're at a party, everyones in that person's circle what a loser you are. You were rejected by thier friend/acquaintance. It is likely that the news has spread all over the place and even your friends know about the rejection. Chances are even your family back in Nepal know about it.
So my friend, asking for a date is not as easy in the Nepali context. When we ask for a date we have to ask ourselves whether there are any common friends between you and the person of interest. Because in case there's a rejection, be ready to feel the full force of the Nepali society's snickers and sneers.
HEHE you know wha i'mmm sayinnn??
guy shud and nepali, its so cute to talk in nepali w/ ur partner <3
It's fun to talk dirty in nepali.
hey let me tell u tho, it is.
Ratobhaley,
I guess you are not "bhaley" at all.
Talk dirty? Aight !!! I can dig that....even in Nepali !!
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