ok you guys!!!..i need some opinion from my nepali friends ke!!!!....is it bad for a nepali gal to fall for indian boy????................................
your comments will be appriciated ke!!!...=]
suraj..in a way you are def. right!!!...but the point is his parents are like totally familier with me!!!!.....but i guess it may differ if i ACTUALLY marry him!!!...but the fact that he was born and raised in USA may make a difference..you know..parents tend to be a lil libral with the fact that there child may bring some different girl as daughter in law if they were born in USA..!!!...since i am one myself a ABCD with a bro at home...i know what my parents are like ...lol..!!!..lol...
but kt, u have been his good fren for 6 yrs. that means if he had also loved you, then he would have proposed you already, so it is more likely that he will kind of get shocked when you say that you love him, and also it will be difficult for him to answer you,, to say yes.. that he doesnt.. to say no.. that you will be hurt.. and also u cant behave with him as before after that..
Hey kt-gurl
First of all.....do you know wether the guy loves you or not......... ??? If you know then speak ur mind.. and do what ur heart says ... you are in USA rite.. ?i think you are capable to hold ur life urself.. and hope that you can stand on ur own feet.. Well you know thing goes better with time..
So, do keep ur relation wid ur mom and dad that's very long.. since ur childhood to ur this stage u are wid them.. but do listen to them.. if they are really conservative then.. go for the 21st century rule.. of urs.. go purpose him.. better late than never.........
rockend knows nothing about love but also I am trying to help you kt-gurl
liking someone is liking someone...marrying someone is marrying.
when it comes to marriage..u'll know by then what kind of person u're with and all the nitty gritty details. it's true that some might be still strict and closed minded..even if they are born and raised in US..but some are more open minded and nice too. I have seen both sides....some ppl are open minded and even the parents and families have learned to be open minded and some guys just play around with girls and then go back home and marry coz their parents want it that way. But details u figure out as u go along...that's what relationship is about... nothing is perfect as one hopes it to be
ya i know what you mean...suraj!!!.but i do have a strong region to belive that he may aswell have the same feelings...i went with him to his junior and senior prom(but as a friend)..but i guess i have watch for the signals of "love" from him huh??..lol..i havent seen him for quite a while now..u know...well i am transfering to his college this spring sem and he seems excited...
hey KT...U are calling me immature...and u act like one..This is and always have been my take:
If u really like someone tell him..don't wait ..there is no perfect time..What worst can happen..he might say i don't feel that way but u know right. u can be sure about that but if u don't u will lose any way..u will lose this guy and u will lose some other love that could be waiting for u for this guy...SO, be a woman ,DO the right thing:)
otherwise ..u silly girl u need spanking..hehehe:P
rockend..i appriciate you trying to help me...and you are right...i may aswell have to listen to my parents and get married to guy i never seen before.....but i guess in my heart i really want this thing to work out...i guess you really are desperate when you are in love!! Cerine...you are right as well....i guess there is a big diff between liking and marrying!!!...
thanks IMI..lol...sometimes..it just is hard for me pour my heart out....even if it the closest friend ever...i guess...i just have to wait till spring to MAKe my move...;]..
KT Gurl,
Remember the biggest players are the nicest ones.
oh really?
Is this also bad? i am getting married today and i am not really sure if i should go to the "jagge" where the bride is waiting....should i or not? your comments will be appreciated!
After several relationships with non-Nepali girls in the last five years ...seriously I would NOT go for non-Nepali girls..anymore.
Initially it'll always be a blast (due to the difference of culture and ways of thinking) but in a long term it wears me down. The matter of cultural compatibility becomes a major issue and I would not want to spend rest of my life trying to make her understand how and why I feel differently about the same thing.
Oh forgot to add!
When in doubt, F**K! ( WITTY EH?)!
hehehe..here we are again. I don't see anything bad in Nepali Gal falling for an Indian. There might be just little more issues to be addressed. If he loves you and u love him then Tanthai saaf. If he does not love u and he is one with good moral, there is no need to worry about friendship breakage. But, careful with opportunist, there are lot out there.
KT-gurl, Nepali girls have always fallen for those Indian actors since bollywood started. So don't think you're the first one to fall for a indian guy.
You already like him so why are you looking for approval? Are you out of your mind?
Whatever tickles your you-know-what.
hey life is not a fantasy.. it's the real fact so... go to the world of real life.. not the fantasy... I think cerine is right.. THere is a great difference in being a lover and a husband...
I hope you got waht I meant to say... marriage is not a joke ..... take it seriously... I know you are in trouble but... all I can say is go as you have to go.. but not in the wrong direction which will lead you into trouble.. You know what when you marry the guy you love .. then you may find a great life for few years or may be you may have a happy ending life... who knows and who know that the person you haven't seen may be perfect to you... I have no idea about what's going on in ur life.. but all I suggest you is to speak ur mind.. and do the thing what won't make you feel regret in the near future..........
I don't know what is love ...........
Rockend
Life is a great fantasy and I intend to realize that fantasy into reality.
as long as he is NOT a MUSLIM, u are fine i guess...
if u marry a muslim, then u No drinking alcohol, no pork, no partying.. no wearing choto choto skirts that nepali girls like to wear in america. etc etc etc..
-lato
ps: by the way, someone deleted my previous post and also someone deleted Khaobadi's post... what a loser... free speech man.. we are in america.
no absolutely not. there is nothing wrong if u fall for a mexican or german or black guy either. its your feelings u cant control it.
thanks u guys!!!...thanks for all your comments...appriciated!!!..♥
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