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shagadelic
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Hey everyone, I know this isn't the best time to be asking this...but I desperately need a little suggestion from you all... I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. She was consistantly evil to me and i frankly cant figure out why I loved her (and still do?). Anyway, we broke up when I was abroad and because of the distance it was easy to move on and forget about her. Now that I am home and we are both in MA we are trying to do a friendship thing. Honestly, I dont know what i want. She treated me horribly...not worthy of the title of friend in the least. The problem is that I am addicted to her and we talk on the phone almost every night. Half of the time she ruins my nights sleep by hitting my soft spots, and the other half of the time I am just plain bored with her and not even listening to what she is saying. Why do I feel the need to keep her in my life? How do I accept that she is a negative in my life? HOW DO I GET RID OF HER??? The only reason that I havent told her to f-off is because I'm too nice.
DP
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Looks like you only told us the half of the story.To my knowledge and experience tells me that she wanted to drop you before.She knows you very well, which is normal.She knows your weaknesses more than you do.She is taking advantage of your weak spots to make you sorry.She is not doing this to get you back, but to make you feel more pathetic and make you repent for losing her. You have nothing to gain from this 'late-night-conversation' thing.You are always losing....one thing or another.It is time to forget and move on.You still want her because you don't have another girl.If you had one, you could spend all your energy to make her( the new one) happy. If you are too scared to lose her even now, there is nothing anyone can do.If that the case, you deserve to be treated the way you are treated now. If my suggestion counts, don't call her.Ask her not to call/contact you.Look for another girl so that you can forget her. DP.
acharya
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Yeah, grow a pair of balls and stop accepting calls/ block her ass...use this philosophy- do not hang around/ associate with people who treat you like crap, it seriously just brings you down man...and by the way, you could probably do much better than her anyway!
Moneyminded
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1. watch football whenever u see u r gf around 2.make her feel that football is more important than her 3.humilate her infront of her frens like u r joking 4.tell her u have aids 5. tell her your penis is very small no no just kidding...........................Make her feel that watching documentry or sport is priority than her................it works..................if the gal doesnot like football.
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Here is the real Shrink, Kiddo's advice: First it looks that you yourself aren't sure within if you want to get rid of her or not. You know it you do, So affirm yourself. Now, before going to bed, think of the nasty things she did. Do this for 5 straight nights. You will start hating her. This is called Shrink Kiddo's Sleep Therapy. What you are doing is you are strengthening your hate synopsis, neurologically. Also you are generating enough hate harmones for your subconscious mind. Try it, it will work.
hendrixfire
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Shagadelic, You might still be in the delusion of all the good things about her and in the other side of your mind, you might be feeling bored of her, with the perception that she'll not be the one as before anymore. The best thing is to give yourself a break, and get away from her from any means. Keep yourself away from every single thing that pulls you back to her. No doubt you can overcome this state of mind though it seems it's gonna last a lifetime (it is indeed a misconception felt so strong). You will get a deserving girl soon, as soon as you keep yourself from hurting yourself for this reason. Rember, if you can fall 'in' love you can fall 'out' of love too. cheers !!
Ram Prasad
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Dude...the best way to forget is not to have contact with her at all. If you keep in touch with here, you will hear her voice everyday that will bring all the memories back to you. I did that and I am happy guy now. I forgot about her in a month....I deleted all the mails that she wrote, threw all the photos of her and me......i didn't keep anything that would bring any of her memories........I made myself busy concerntrating in work and reading books....she now seems like long gone history to me now and I feel really good not to have any attachment to anybody ( and I am not looking further to have any either in near future)......above all don't be alone so that you will have time to wonder and ponder in the memories (...dang...too many "memories" here).... GOOD LUCK MAN.... Ram Prasad
kanchu
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Hi confused I am not good at this but I found a site of how to break up and i just copied n pasted it. I don't know this is going help u or not. Anyway good luck. And here it goes- i strongly suggest that when breaking up, you invite her out for lunch or dinner at the very same place you first met or had a date together. The symbolic significance of your relationship having come full circle will not be lost on both of you during your breakup. When telling her the awful truth, you should have a solemn face and say the words like you mean them. I really hope you do. Telling her in person is never easy, breaking up never is, and you owe it to her to tell the news of your breakup to her personally. Not on the phone, definitely not over e-mail, but in the flesh. Due to the fact that she might get emotional when you tell her the sad truth, you might want to breakup with her somewhere hidden from the public eye. When breaking up, come clean. There is no room for any white washing or delaying. That will only make matters worse and further prolong your agony. Think of breaking up not only as the end to a bad relationship, but rather as an end to the beginning. New doors will be opened and new opportunities will come by. You are closing a chapter of your life and at the same one, starting a new one as well. Each person thinks that their own breakup is unique and must have been the most traumatic in all history. The truth of the matter is that breakups always follow the same pattern and somehow, life goes on. You will meet new people, go new places and your breakup will be but a distant memory, a signpost in your checkered and colorful life.
Moneyminded
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hEY PRETEND LIKE U ARE GOING TO RAPE HER..................IT SURELY WORKS OR SAY U HAVE AIDS............................... THIS IS 100 PERCENT WORKS................................
shagadelic
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Thanks for the suggestion guys. Is it possible to block calls from a certain caller on one's cell (as opposed to not answering)?
aisha
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hey shaggyyy.....i think u should remove her from ur cell...if u can't .... call ur cell phone company and be like like u cannot accet calls from her number....or jus get a new number......
ChaosMaster
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Like to dedicate a song for u If your havin girl problems i feel bad for you son I got 99 problems but a b_i_t_c_h ain't one I got the rap patrol on the gat patrol Foes that wanna make sure my casket's closed Rap critics that say he's "Money Cash Hoes" I'm from the hood stupid what type of facts are those If you grew up with O's and you zap the toes You'd celebrate the minute you was havin doe I'm like f_u_c_k critics you can kiss my whole asshole If you don't like my lyrics you can press fast forward Got beef with radio if i don't play they show They don't play my hits well i don't give a shit SO Rap mags try and use my black ass So advertisers can give em more cash for ads...f_u_c_k_e_r_s I don't know what you take me as or understand the intellegence that Jay-Z has I'm from rags to ritches nigga i ain't dumb I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one Hit me 99 Problems but a bitch ain't one If you havin girl problems i feel bad for you son I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one Hit me The year is '94 and in my trunk is raw In my rear view mirror is the mother f_u_c_k_i_n law I got two choices yall pull over the car or Bounce on the devil put the pedal to the floor Now i ain't tryin to see no highway chase with jake Plus i got a few dollars i can fight the case So i...pull over to the side of the road And i heard "Son do you know why i'm stoppin you for?" Cause i'm young and i'm black and my hats real low Do i look like a mind reader sir, i don't know Am i under arrest or should i guess some mo? "Well you was doin fifty five in a fifty four" "Liscense and regestration and step out of the car" "Are you carryin a weapon on you i know alot of you are" I ain't steppin out of shit all my papers legit "Do you mind if i look round the car a little bit?" Well my glove compartment is locked so is the trunk and the back And i know my rights so you gon' need a warrent for that "Aren't you sharp as a tack are some type of lawyer or something?" "Or somebody important or somethin?" Nah i ain't pass the bar but i know a little bit Enough that you won't illegally search my shit "Well see how smart you are when the K-9's come" I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one Hit me Now once upon a time not too long ago A nigga like myself had to strong arm a hoe This is not a hoe in the sense of havin a p_u_s_s_y But a p_u_s_s_y havin no God Damn sense, try and push me I tried to inore him and talk to the Lord Pray for him, cause some fools just love to perform You know the type loud as a motor bike But wouldn't bust a grape in a fruit fight The only thing that's gonna happen is i'mma get to clappin He and his boys gon be yappin to the captain And there i go traped in the kit kat again Back through the system with the riff raff again Fiends on the floor scratchin again Paparatzi's with they cameras snappin them D.A. tred to give the nigga the shaft again Half-a-mil for bail cause i'm African All because ths fool was horrasin them Tryin to play the boy like hes saccarin But ain't nothin sweet 'bout how i hold my gun I got 99 problems but this bitch ain't one Hit me You're crazy for this one Rick It's your boy
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