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हेर्नुस् राम भक्तजी,

लोगन्या मुजीले आमाको नामको गाली दिन थाल्यो र ब्लक हान्देको, जाँठोले पधेस्वोर , CID आदि इत्यादी नामक खाता खोलर तथानाम लेखि राख्या रैछ, मुजी बौलाई राखोस . सबैले मुजीलाइ सुस्ते ,अर्धपागल , ADHD , autistic , ट्रपाँ फुसी चटुवा भन्थे मलाई चै मुजीको खुब दया लाग्थ्यो , आज आएर मेरै चाक् टोक्न थाल्यो .

बेन्डिक मोहदय, थट के भन्या तेस्तो ? रत्नपार्क नटेक्या त २० वर्ष भयो होला . २५०० त बेसिक हो एक घण्टाको मसाज ,तपाइले अरु सेवा सुबिधा थप्नु भयो भने ८ १० हजार सजिलै पुग्छ , म चै सादा मसाज मात्र गरेर फर्किन्छु .

सारा मोडेल / मिडिया पेर्सोनालिटी त भन्दिन तर केहि प्रतिसत चै यो छेत्रमा लाग्या छन भन्ने मैले आफैले देखे . नेपालाँ मोडलिङ्ग /कलाकारिता गरेर मात्रै त २ छाक धान्न पनि सकिन्न ,यो कुरो त तपाईलाइ पनि थाहा छ होला , तर पनि यसता मोडलहरु करोडको गाडी कसरि चडछन् होला ? हरेक नया नया मोडलका फोन कसरि बोक्छन होला ,सपिङ्ग गर्न हरेक १ २ महिनाँ विदेश कसरि जान्छन होला ? उनीहरुकोजस्तो जीवन सैली हामी अमृकाँ बास्नेलाइ समेत मात दिने खालको हुन्छ .

मैले मोडेल मात्र भने होला तर अरु छेत्रका मान्छे पनि आफ्नो हिसाबले जिन्दगि रंगिन तरिकाले बिताई राख्या छन् जस्तै +२ पढ्नेहरु , मेडिकल , नर्सिङ्ग आदि आदि .

फेरी यहाँ विचार गर्नु पर्ने कुरा चै के हो भने , पैसा फ्ल्याट फाल्दैमा जो संग जे पनि गर्न पाइन्छ भन्ने कुरो चै हैन रैछ . अमृकाँ क्रेडिट चेक गर्य जस्तै यहाँ तपाईको प्रोफाइल चेक गरेर मात्र तपाईको सोसल इन्गेजमेन्ट हुन्छ . पैसा फेक तमाशा देख चै तेइ रत्नपार्क तिर मात्र होला , तर किन हो किन नेपाली केटिहरु America return संग चै भुताक्कै हुने रैछन , मुजी बत्तिमा पुतली टाँस्स्याँ जस्तो चिपिक्कै हुन खोज्ने , बिशेष गरि कलेजाँ पढ्ने नानीहरु . पैसा मात्रै त ति कोरियाबाट फर्केका संग नि हुने रैछ तर तिनीहरुलाइ कसैले गनेको जस्तो लागेन .

अम्रिकन हुनुको निकै competitive advantage पाएको जस्तो अनुभुति एरपोर्ट बाटै भयो . त्यहाँ इमिग्रेशनाँ एउटा बुढी अफिसर थिइ, त्यो जाठीले हुने वाला ज्वाई लाइ जस्तै बेबहार गरिन . east or west American passport is the best को अनुभूति भयो . आज दिउसो मेरो एकदम VIP dating छ , तेस्कै तत्यारीमा नुहाउने, दारी/ भुत्ला काट्ने आदि इत्यादीको तयारीमा लाग्नु छ . मूजि सम्झेरै कस्तो लाज लागि लाख्य छ . wish मि luck $$.

For some engaging with other women with or without paying is hobby. It’s doesn’t mean you won’t love your own family or kids. Some people play sports , some watch sports , some ride , it’s activity for that specific period of time that is fun for engaged parties. Nothing more nothing less . It has happened through out the history in some form or fashion. And it’s common in many part of world.

Actually it’s has been only illegal or seen as wrong behavior in last 4/5 decade . Just because some part of society have problem with it doesn’t mean it’s crime. It was crime to smoke weed few years back all over us, now it’s legal in half of us. As long as it’s consensual and doesn’t involve public indency and kids in any way, there is nothing wrong. Some people want to be guardian of society for everyone and everything, so be it.

U sound cheap! Kasto restaurant gako hola 150 rs tala ko menu re! Khai hami Ek taal restaurant jada 3-4 hajar ko bill aucha for eg roadhouse, sundown, octave, Jimmu thakali etc! Bhalu ni kasto khalko ho kunni jamma 12 hajar liney! Khai hamle ta Ek ghanta kai 4 hajar kharcha garcha! Model haru Pataudi ta jhan shopping Yeta Uta garera 1 week mai 1-2 lakh kharcha huncha! Dohori ra dance club jada Ek raat mai 30-40 hajar ko bill tireko chu! Bhai ali standard restaurant, standard model haru ghumaune gara! D’un be so cheap just like every single Nepalese people!

शेखरजी,

मेराज जी,

The whole world debates on this double standard about why it’s acceptable for male to be promiscuous but woman are expected to be monogamous. The whole feminist culture has came out to same concept. Why women can’t be and act same as men. Why it’s NOT ok for women to go clubbing and flirt with other men when they are married when it’s common for men. 

I can’t possibly convince anyone or change their opinion about this with some argument. People have their own belief system, culture, surroundings, social circle which formulates what they believe over longer period of time.

For me it’s more about natural behaviors and social roles of men and women. For men sex is mostly physical act. They can involve in sexual act with women who they just meet for five minutes or with someone who they have never thought about before . They can have sex and never think about that same women ever again. They can easily stay emotionally detached with women they have involved in sexual activity in regularly basics too. In other word , emotional relation and sexual relations are separate for men. Women are exactly opposite of that. If they involve in sexual relationship they are emotionally involved . It’s same biological nature in many animals too. Because of that throughout history family men being promiscuous has not been too damaging to family and society vs married women being promiscuous. 

Not saying every men has to have promiscuous relationship or promoting that in any way. But it’s in men’s nature and biology to be promiscuous. And he shouldn’t be seen as evil or criminal just because of that.

I dont know guys i feel really sad seeing Nepali women in such situation to get hard on. A lot of them have children and are from villages and do it to support their fam to get by. Some are lost and brainwashed by consumerism and think iphone 14 worths more than dignity. I feel compassion than getting sexually aroused. They are from our country. If congress and maobadis hadnt killed industrual revolution happeining in Nepal in last decade most of them wouldnt be doing such thing out of desperation. To use high exchange rate of dollars to get sexual satisfaction is im sorry pathetic. If someone finds u attractive and u find them attractive and go in a room together to jump on each others bones than it would be a different story.

@ehho2 - you sound very sensible. Hats off.

That argument of civilization with advance economic opportunities may not have sex workers is probably not valid either . We have plenty of examples, data and historical context to say that with fair certainty. Just see western civilization.

It’s oldest profession for a reason. Selling strength is oldest profession for men and selling charm is oldest profession for women. There will always be men willing to pay for women’s charm and women willing to sell their charm for what they need. Probably number will go up and down slightly. Rich and poor are number in bell curve. Curve might sift a bit but there will always two tail , one tail being rich, other being poor and majority in middle.

Again not justifying all these, but it’s should be personal choice between men and women to involve or not involve in any of this. Nepalese society have way too much hypocrisy sex. And current trend to force people to be politically correct on every women issue is not going help. Neplease society is perfectly ok to sell mens strength where ever needed , even overseas till the point that all he does is sell his strengths and feed his family till he dies, but it’s not ok for women to sell her charm safely on her own country and society.

I can’t probably say this things in other media , where we have army of social police ready to force everyone to be feminine and politically correct. I will get slammed with nasty comments and personal attack. But society needs to learn opposites views and respect life style based on personal choices .

This is my last post on this thread, after long time in sajha. Have good week end folks .

Benedict mofo!I brag about my money! I spent like it ain’t nothing so what u got a problem with that u poor dirty looking mofo

So many similar posts. Someone posts about their “conquests” and someone else does a lot of analysis taking the poster’s account without a pinch of salt. Then looking at this analysis someone else feels jealous and says “this is nothing, I spend more, I had more fun, I am better than you” and this posting has more obvious holes than the first one, and obviously someone points it out :-) now the jealous poster starts swearing for pointing that out :-)

Another post, something similar. repeat.

मेरो आफ्नो अनालाइसिस गर्दा मैले के पाउछु भने, मलाई मान्छेमा हुने डबल स्ट्यान्डर्ड देखी सधैं रिस उठ्छ। मैले अमेरिकामा नेपाली लगायत अरु मुलका पनि मान्छेहरु यस्ता भेटे कि आफु चै भएभरका केटीसँग सुत्दै हिंड्ने रे हैन "बीकज आई एम अ म्यान" भन्दै, अनी भरे आफुले बिहे गर्ने केटी चै यता-उती नगरेकी, तथा कथित सती-साबित्री, घरेलु, भर्जिन होस् रे। यस्तो सोच चै के भनौ।

हाम्रो पालामा एकजना चर्चित नायिकाले आत्महत्या गर्नु परेको थियो भित्रि कुरो बाहिर निस्किए पछि . बाल्टीमोरकि एकजना चर्चित नीइका लाइ एकजना ठुलै ब्यापारीले अम्रिका ल्याएर सेटल गर्दिनु भएको थियो .

नेपालमा सेलिब्रेटीहरु एका-एक सुन्य बाट स्टार हुन्छन अनि २ ३ वर्ष मै चमक हटेर फेरी सुन्यमा जान्छन, त्यो २ ३ वर्षमा कुनै करोडपति पट्याएर घर जम गरे त ठिकै हो नत्र कान्त-बिजोग हुन्छ . पढाई / सिप सबैको आलु हुन्छ तर एकचोटी सेलिब्रेटी भइ सके पछि खर्च आकास छुने हुन्छ तर आम्दानी सुन्य हुन्छ . यो आवस्थामा जे पनि गर्नु पर्ने बाध्यता आउन सक्छ .

अपडेट :
माटोक्ने अति रमाईलो भयो ,बयाँन गर्ने सब्द छैन .म त मुजी ३ ४ दिन अर्कै दुनियाँ रैछु . पैसा र बैसाँ सधैँ दांइना हुन सबैको . पैसा सकियो केटा हो ,आइ यम कमिंग , घण्टा हान्न !!

आफु त chill पारा मा अस्ति मकै बारीमा लगेर जोदेको। गाउ तिर मान्छे बसन छोडी हाले। येसो तराई को ठिटी सम्त्यॊ पहाडको डाडाकडा हेर्न भनेर लाने एउटा condom र lubricant बोकेर, घर तिर येसो गाउ ठाउँ तिर के कसो छ भनेर बुज्न जना लाको भन्दा नि भो।

फर्किने बेला ५० को current र ५० फ्रुटी/कोके खुवनी अनि फोन भोलि पट बाट distance maintain गर्ने। हुन नि हो यिनीहरु बिहे गर्ने भनेको अमेरिका को ग्रीनकार्ड धारी सुद्ड़ाले त हो अन्तिम मा। हाम्रो काम भनेको तेइ यता बाट train गरार पठाउने पो हो।

Ram bhaktay, shekharey, underwear jasta nalayak napungsak haru le pachi gayera 20-20 jana le thokeko budi pauchan. Yasta bhirangi prasad haru lai bhagwan le upar bata binocular lagayera heri raheka chhan .

1 सय को १५० दिने ब्याङ्क बनेर गफ लाउने त चै सुस्ते होस् . येदि ठेरो घर मा गूगल छैन भने म भनि दिन्छु आज को रेट 1 United States Dollar equals
132.77 Nepalese रुपैयाँ . बुढो मुजी छाम्दा छाम्दा तेरो दिमाग भ्वंग परि सक्यो

सुस्ते मुजी लठ्याब्रो १९९५ क्यर्म्रीलाइ लात्ताले हानेर बारीको पाटाँ पुर्याईदिम जाँठां? ब्यांकाँ हैन मुजी ब्ल्याकाँ भनेर लेखेको देख्दैनस ? चिक्ने त्यो बेलाँ डलरको अपर्याप्तता थियो नेपालाँ, बाहिर पढ्न जाने बिद्यार्थीले बैंकबाट १५०० भन्दा बढी डलर नपाउने हुनाले ब्ल्याकाँ १६० सम्म तिर्थे मुजी होमलेस !

यो चिक्ने सुस्ते लठ्याब्रो संग नसकिने भैयो !