अब नेपाल गएर K K गरने प्लान गरौ
नेपाल फ़र्किन त फ़र्किनु , २ ta kura मेरो केस मॉ!
१. अब बुड़ेस्काल मॉ K जाब गरने होला नेपाल मॉ, उमेर मॉ ता tannai नाइट डूटी gario आज़ आ नर्स! अब गरना सकीना होला
२. मेरो किड्ज़ लाई कसारि adjust garaune होला . नेपाल januparch vanyo की रूँna thalch बॉ!
एसो टिप्स pauna इस्पेशली यो किड्ज़ को मेंटली डिस्ट्रब नगरी kuro कसारि मिलौने होला .....
लौ परेन फसाद !
नेपालमा बस्नेले टाटा टिपेर बस्छन भन्ने सोच्छन कति जोगाइएको छ ? यहि साझामा ३०० जना नेपालि मेक्सिको र अमेरिकी बोर्डरको अनुहार सम्म देख्न पाएर रे त्यो पनि ४०-७५ लाख खर्च गरेर ?
५-७ करोड बिना नेपाल फर्किदा आमा बाको कुरा नगरौ तर दाजुभाइ दिदि बैनी चै खुसि हुदैन होला ?
टिप्स को कुरा : २-३ बर्सका भए पनि हामि नेपाल घुमन गएका भन्नु ? फेरी डेरा डण्डा सफा गरेर हिड्नु पर्दा थाहा पाई हाल्छन |
आफु जुन भिसामा आएको तेस्को बारे कुरा कानी गर्ने अनि हामि नियम अनुसार आफ्नै देश फर्किने ब्याध्यता हुन्छ र नियम पालना तिर बढी जोड दिनुस | यता पढेका बच्चा लाइ नियम पालनाको कुरामा बढी सतर्कता लिन्छन | लामो बसाइ गरे के हुन्छ का pros & cons अगाडि ल्याउनुस | अनि उनीहरु संगै के चै गर्दा ठिक हुन्छ सल्लाह माग्नुस |
धाएनेबाद gorke जी, तपाई को उत्तर आउछा banne पूर्ण आस M.a. Thiye!
Purai फ़साद पारने vo नी!
५-७ करोड़! हम्म jiudai ढलने अवस्था sunda पनी,
किड्ज़ को age yeta ना uta को वाएरा ता tension , स्कूल age ले kurai नाबूजने K गरने
नेपाल गएरा ता ऊहि ० देखी सुरु अब
या नी ० देखी सुरु थीयो
यो खप्पर लाई kun दिन यो अमेरिका आऊनु परेको , पछताई रहेको अवस्था!
सत्यतामा कटुता हुन्छ अनि साझामा छिरेर पोख्ने गर्छु |
मेरो भाइ देखि २ टा कजन लाइ एङ्गिनियरिङ्ग मा भर्ना भए तिनै जनाले पास गर्न सकेनन | तेस्मधे एक ले काठमाण्डौ कि लोकल बिहे गरेर जापान पुगेर केहि लिएर आए | मेरै भाइ र अर्को चैं जड्याहा भए |
यिनका कुरा : मलाइ बाउले काठमाण्डौ नपठाएको भए बिग्रिदीन थिए ? तपाइँ पनि कुन खप्पर भनेर बस्नु सट्टा अब के गर्ने भन्ने तिर लाग्नुस् भनौ भने पनि आफ्नो कथा पनि तपाइँ संगै मिल्दो जुल्दो छ सल्लाह दिन सजिलो पालना गर्न गाह्रो | गुरु प्रसाद मैनालीको " नासो" कथा पढ्नु भएको छ ?
तपाइँ तेसो भन्नु हुन्छ उता मेक्सिको को बोर्डरमा (३०० जना ) बसेर अमेरिका हेर्दै बसेका छन् कहिले छिर्न पाइन्छ र टाटा टिपौला भनि | ६०-७० लाख ऋण / घर जग्गा बेचेको उक्साउनु छ बर्स दिन भित्रै | यिनी हरु त २०-३० महिना लगाएर छिरे | खुसि मनाउनुस स्वास्नी छोरा छोरी संग बस्न पाउनु भयो : बिहे गरेर गर्भवती बनाएर आउने हरु २०सौ बर्स भयो अझै फोनमा रुवाबासी गर्दै छन् |
Kuro ठीक हो कि gorke जी ! Tara hajur चाई जो नी यो साझा माँ चाई लोगने manche मात्रा पोस्ट गरचा vanne सोचेको के सारों है?
बिलाना gauen आबास्था aailagyo ता के garne गोरके जीं , paiso ता मगेको chunna नी टिप्स पो मगेको ! धन्यवाद र pani ! Ajhai टिप्स ट्रिक्स चाई तकरौनु होला ।
टिप्स को कुरामा आफै त महादेव उत्तानो टाङ्ग |
जानै पर्ने भए पछि पुराना धागा अनुसार क्रेडिट कार्ड म्याक्स गरेर जाने सल्लाह पनि दिएका थिए |
Aru साथी हरू ले पनी हल्का सहयोग garnu पारों, किड्ज़ लाई kasari मेंटली फ़्री बनौने बिसाए मुक़ये vayera आयो.
How old are kids? Under 7 it shouldn't be big deal, in few months they will settle down. 10++ it's kind of tricky. Teen ager better wait few years ...let them be 18 ...then u are free bird.
Now if one is teen ager and another is under 10...then you are doomed . Do what ever your kids say....
मिराज जी किड्ज़ ८ यर्स twins ! किड्ज़ लाई नी एसो kura निकलयो भाव बेहाल गरेरा पो रुँचन त , बिचारा हरू ले uta चाई माँछे हुन्ना झाई गरी:(
Don't worry to much about money and future. It's actually way easy to settle in Nepal, think about your relatives, community and society. Here you don't have your society. Probably your kids can not make that may friends here, because u know school environment here is not as simple as we might think. Tell your kids that Nepal is a beautiful country and they have all relatives and cousins there and they can easily make friends. You need to guide them well in Nepali language learning. Think this way- if you/anyone stayed here in USA, your kids get lost here and your relatives tell the story to others that you had kids in USA but they dont know them well and what they are doing. That means it's like lost Nepalese people in Burma and Thailand in the past. Anyway we have to return for our own sake, don't go after few dollars and entertainment. Realize the reality.
8 yrs kids could be doable with little effort . If you really want to go, they will adjust in a little while. Language is main thing if they don't speak Nepali, but they will learn pretty quick.
My kids aren't 8 yet, but one my firends daughter is very much interested in Nepal , culture and language . They didn't have any trouble settling down back in Nepal . Try to keep environment similar to here for first year or so. Mainly decent school, less crowded location and gathering, may be AC and stuff at home if possible. But also let them integrate slowly. May be telling them we will try and see how it works , if doesn't work, we will come back will ease their pain. I personally fell we should make this decision before kids are 6.
But I have to tell you that this theory of one have to go back to their own place to be truely happy is not entirely correct. Human race has always been migrating, adjusting life style over the history of human life. Ofcours your kids will live life in American way, but isn't that why we came to US. If we can't accept that then we will be pain all the time.
@lajalu_ In my opinion the kids will do just fine overtime.They will most likely make more close friends here in Nepal than in US. Finding job may take a while especially if you plan on staying at big cities as a nurse (connection is KEY). If you haven't already, I suggest you write down all your (family) priorities and compare cons and pros of both US and Nepal and see if you still plan on moving back to Nepal (This is what I did when I moved back Nepal myself and OVERALL I have been significantly happier here in Nepal compared to US).
Remember life in Nepal is going to be really challenging for first 2-3 months so be mentally prepared for that. Also, I would suggest you to move during 1 month or so school break here in Nepal. The 1st month will be really hard on all of you so moving during school break gives you time to visit places and spend ample time together while you are also getting acclimated here. Wish you all the best on whatever you decide.
Last edited: 22-Feb-17 08:08 AM
थैंक यू मिरज जी एंड sanee जी . हेल्प्फ़ुल tips!
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