+2 sakera america padna auda muskil ley usko umer 19 thiyo. bhivinna hunder ra thokar khayera balla balla master sakera kam khojne layek huda aile wo 30 barsa jati bhayo. sadharan tarika ley parda ni usko 10 barsa ko padai kharcha $100K. jasmadhye 40K america ma jen ten garera kamayecha baki 60K debt ma cha .
OPT paye pachi 2 maina 1000 thau ma kam khojyo 500 ota job application pathayo kehi payena, aba 1 main ma kam payena bhane usko usa ko dhoka banda, wa geri f1 mentain garnu parne. masters feri repeat garna kamtima 25 k chincha. paisa china..
aaba paryo farsad, dimag ley kamgarna chodyo, tetaikai ma auta sathi ley desi consultancy ma jana sallaha dincha, IT background bhayeko ra kunai option nabhaye pachi wo desi consultancy ma hircha.
class ko poilo din, 10 12 jana keta keti auta class ma. teacher ley introductun magcha... sabai QA garna aaka( which is basic a IT job ). introduction garne kram ma tha huncha koi pharmecy ma masters gareka 2 maina ma kam napayera status mentain garna aaka, koi mechanical engineering ma masters, koi nursing sakeka kam napaka , koi IT sakera aafai kam napaka, koi computer science sakera kam napayera aako.
yehi bhir ma aada jati yesta ni chan jasko khasai formal qualification china nepal ma +2 samma gareka chan, koi dv pareka sanga teti ni nahola, koi assylum ka dependent jasko padhai 10 class cha. koi community college parda pardai TPS payea aaka chan. consultancy ley sabai lai autai class ma rakhera autai kura padai ra cha autai teacher ley
sabai ko IT ma 5 6 barsa kam gareko experence banako cha. feri testai ley kam ni paka chan.
aaba uslai yaha peer paryo, 10 barsa jawani khaechera $100K udara liyeko degree bhayera ni +2 ni ramro sanga nagareka sanga sangai basera autai kam ma bhidnu parcha bhane kina linu USA Ko degree?? jaba international students lai kunai kam nai diyinna bhane k garnu tyo degree ley..19 barsa ko thito kati sapana bokera USA chireko aajo 30 barsa ko huda kei garla bhannu ta kata ho kata aajai usko thaplo ma 60K loan cha. kam paune kunai chat gat china.
mero prasna usa ma junai field ma jati paisa kharcha garera degree liye ni aakhir antim yatra desi ko consultancy ma QA garnu nai ho??
yedi yehi nai ho bhane kina 10 barsa kharcha gaenu parna, IT ko lagi kunai padai nachine raicha 6 maina ko vocational training liyera opt banayera IT chire hunna ra. aakhir 10 barsa pachi ni tyo degree bora ma halera desi ko consultancy ma dhaune nai raicha?? bekkar ma 1o barsa ra 1ooK kina pani ma halne ?? kuro gambhir ca.. ( kasai ko bastabik jeevan ma milna gaye ma samyog matra hune cha )
Ajja boli sab Nepali Ko job Uber/lyft driver ra Ali kete smart hareu IT ma cha, aba degree Ko kurra garey bhani.. mero sathi Le status Ko lagi 3 MBA sama gari sakeyo, kunai sati Asylum pending ma fasiyo na auna jana Milne Nepal na ga Ko 10 barsa badi bahesaiyo. Dothi/Russian ani Chinese consultancy Le damadam paisa chapirakekko cha. Aba ke garni degree ley affnu temperature napni ke.. flow sanga glow garni. Rin ta Abba Nepal bata paisa bokera padnu auni sayed kaam nai hola. Rin bhaneko tension ho. Mero eutta sathi Pilot Traning garama akko tiyo ajja BI ma kaam garcha, arko vet doc tyo ni IT saab dothi sanga. Abba timi ni jau ani Dimag Ko bati jalau.
Yeha sathi haru ali dherai nai depressed bhako dekhiyo.
Nepali haru le Harvard, Columbia, Stanford bata MBA ni gareka chan. Investment banker bhayera millions ni kamayeka chan. Mckinsey, BCG ma kaam garera world ghumera baseka ni chan. Afnai start up kholera funding payeka ni chan. Sabai ko afnai afnai story cha. Fusemachines bhanne company ko barema padham sathi ho. Nepali le kholeko company ho. Dherai Nepali kaam garchan. Aru pani thuprai chan.
College gayera padhera graduate hunu vaneko afno knowedge badhaunu ho. Tesari graduate bhayeka student le pakkai pani IT ma gayera ni pragati garchan. Teha ko kaam sikchan, coding sikchan, ani full time kaam pauchan. IT company haru nepali le kholeka thuprai chan. Consultancy ma kaam suru gareka sathi haru le pachi aafnai company kholera ahile Nepal ma brach pani kholisake. Ahile Nepal bata sidhai H1B ma lyauchan manche. Merai sathi haru Nepal bata Computer padheka ahile direct H1B ma aaye.
Ma aafu pani undergrad sakkera kaam garna thaleko ho. Espaali balla H1B paryo. Aasti ko paali naparera. Ahile ali Nepali lai gaaro bhayeko yo H1B ma limitation bahyera ho. 2 ta 3 ta masters garnu pareko. Natra ta yo consultancy ma chirera H1B garera, GC garera ramro sanga baseka dherai chan. Tara full time kaam payera company lai impress parna sakkyo bhane H1B nai chahidaina. Maile aafaile H1B parena bhanera boss lai Green Card gardena bhaneko gardyo. Aile I-140 approve bhaisakyo. Espaali H1b ni paryo parna chai.
Tei bahyera sathi ho padham, sakesamma full time kaam khojam. Bhayena bhane consultancy bahenko ta euta stepping stone ho bhanne bujhera agadi badam. Hares nakham.
He made it to the USA at 19 and now he is 30 something, after a decade and 60 k later, that guy still has some major growing up to do. Formal degrees from colleges should have instilled in him a sense of inadequacy of 'formal education' and respect for people from all walks of life. With I'm de facto smarter than DV winners and asylum seekers ( that insinuate his false sense of entitlement), hence I should be rewarded most attitude, he has failed to realize the quintessential ingredient of American Exceptionalism. With this attitude, he won't survive in IT. He is probably better off going back to Nepal and enjoying his inheritance while it lasts, or grow up and realize that learning is a lifelong process, often without piece of paper formalizing it.
It's almost as if he is complaining that DV winners with only high-school education are getting the same job that he is getting. Dude, it's IT. You are getting this job because your resume is padded and it doesn't have strict education requirement like other jobs (say economist, engineer, doctor, lawyer etc). If you have higher education, that will always help you move up in IT. Don't look at what others have, look at what you got- and believe me, you will only realize what you got was great once you lose it.
One thing I have noticed in sajha is that people tend to belittle "DV winners" and "Asylum seekers". "DV parera aako haru esto usto...asylum file garera paper banayo." Why though? If their luck favored them, what is wrong with that?
Mind your own business bhanne hamra sajha baasi haru le birseka chan... sabai ko aafnu aafnu story ra struggle huncha. aafulai badhaa na puraaye sammma jasle j gare ni bho ni... kina tauko dukhaaune aafnu.... fake resume lera IT gayera tanna kamaaye , uskai life ho.. He/she worked for it and made it through.... tanna kamaaune bhaye aafu ni jaane.... haina bhane gas station ma ghanta hanne... haina bhane padhera full time job nai khaanee... option nai option cha..... baru amerika puge pachi ta aafnu baato ma hera... kasle ke laacha... k khaacha.... kati dherai tension ....
You don't work hard. You need to work smart k bro...kati bhannu Bachelors garera matra USA aau keta keti ho bhanera...sab [Disallowed String for - replaced word] haru lai USA ko bhoot chadya cha....the grass is always greener on the other side of the road...
yedi Undergraduate/Graduate (Computer Science wa IT related major) USA ma sakaye pachi consultancy ma QA ko training garna janchau bhane, you are in wrong field or mentally challenged. I understand getting training on other areas to get foot in the door but QA, really???
@ man ma choyo mitra, testo bidambana ma ma ni chu [we are in same boat]. Ma ni tehi sochhu khoi ta USA ko padhai ko value? ramro GPA liyayooo ramro sanga padyo akhir hati ayo hati ayo fussa vanya jastai.
Ma ni afai le choto samaya ma pako experience le kam khojdai chu tara asafalta ko vumari ma chu Matukne experience is whats that count not even education. PAchi thaha vayo education le matrai bato dekhaucha tara experience le destination dincha
mero ni aile sano tino kam garera basira chu ramro kam paune soch ma. Mitra lai best of luck, chitai kam milos mitra.
Ramro GPA and Ramro Padhai does not always guarantee a pay off.
You need a competing personality, communication skills, and the skill to present yourself appealing to others.
Can we agree that us Nepalese in general are less confident and with less communication skills than the indians?
Who has not found the jobs after school??
The one who always thought he qualified to walk the fashion ramps in college programs. The one who thought of himself as smarter, popular, and better "swaggin" than others. He managed to get the $10 clerk job while in school cos he knew how to say " wassup" better. Those "wassup" gangs are still doing the $10/hr job at age 35 and over.
Very rarely i have also seen nerds with ZERO communication and people skill also not find jobs.
Know what you want. Know what the purpose of the step you take and go from there. Consulting for stepping stone is fine. Or moving back home and doing something there is also fine.
@sidster: I completely agree on what you said and going home is another option which is fine but in professional work they mostly care about how much knowledge you have or what we call EXPERTISE. Expert factor brings in personality, confidence and ability to speak but in real work job environment if you have personality and confidence and public speaking ability but dont know what you talking about in a technical way thats a problem. I havent had much exposure to lots of colleagues of mine but there are few who doesnt really communicate well but have been in their position without getting fired.
and I can tell you brother with confidence that I was also one who didnt find a job after school for a long time, Though personality and other trait helps; wish it could help more but brother you got some points too..
I believe[I might be wrong too ] school only guides you to show you the way and then rest is upon oneself and luck
If you get full scholarship then do study anywhere in the world where you get that money from. Investing your own money in dark in competitive world without calculating risk and reward will not lead you in better future. World is getting smaller, Internet is everywhere, education are getting cheaper. Education is investment now. So think twice before you put your money in action. Think how can you maximize your investment. Bill Gate is not college graduate yet he is richest person of the world, I don;t mean to say that you don't study. Study hard, study so hard that you buy money (i mean get scholarship) instead of money buying education. ( I hope what I mean to say you). Best of luck.