I just got married in nepal(Arrange Marriage)..and now i don't like my husband anymore.
I got married to a guy in Nepal recently. Its been few weeks and i really don't feel like being with my husband.
Don't know how i'll spend my life with him.
Honestly i think i can't spend my life with my current husband.
What should i do ?
Should i leave him and live seperately ?
What u dont like about him ? you wont know a person in a few weeks though ! If you dont like him after some time then leaving him is the main option and suggestion I will give ! Good luck.
इज इट द साइज अफ द पिनस, बेब ?? इफ इट इज देन गेट हिम f2 ओर ग्रीन्कार्ड ओर व्हाटएभर, ब्रिङ् द होम्बोए हियर, लेट्स गिभ हिम अ चान्स तु लीभ हिस अमेरिकन ड्रिम याझ वेल यान्ड इन द मिन्टाइम्, कीप मी इन माइन्द !
Communicate, share things, and stop thinking 'if this one doesn't work, I'll find another.' Applies to your husband too. And there's no guarantee that the next one is going to be better.
Things, especially a healthy relationship, don't exist by themselves; you have to work hard to make them exist. If you don't try, it certainly won't work between you and your husband.
I think you know what you should do better than anyone here. Decise wisely.
someone said marriage are made in heaven, so is the fact, make it work
dont discuss things in public, aru le faida uthauncha, u kn wht i mean
hire a counsular, it will work
good luck
You had a baby last year and seeking name suggestion here
and now you are married to a new guy??? hmmmmm daal me kuchh kalo chha jasto chha hai......
http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=92161
racheeta poila jau khairey sanga,
life is short, have a full fledge life
go sleep with someone else baby
leave ur budha :)
Give him some " benefit of doubt" for a while, if his character has sonething to do wid it, lay it on... Tell him straight up n give him chance to improve, we all do mistakes n ecerybody deserves a chance
Trust me you'd be better of compromising rather than looking for short term "sweet taste" ...eventually we all grow old n what matters is a true relationship n better understanding.
Make no mistAke, expecatations & desires fluctuate with times...we are human n we live in society ...we rely on social things that makes our living worth of living
Milera basno parcha hamro samaj sano cha praya praya sabAi le sabailai chinchan ra easto kura thahapada chitta dukhaona shakchAn ani kura katna pani tesaile garda chupa lagera gyani manche jastai mil era basnoparcha hai
Could you be just an attention seeking troll?
Teita e nani ta pohor saal racheeta kanchi bhanera khub kurleki theen...khai eeni ta kta hunki jasto chha..attention seeker may be!
कुरा सत्य र मनगढ़ंत मध्धे कुनै एक हुन सक्छ | However it is testing the attitude and mentality of the commentors. हुदा हुँदा पीनस को साइज माग्न पनि भ्याई सके : तेस्ले छोडली अनि हात पार्ने दाउ हो कि ? गधा डुक्रीए झैँ दुक्र अनि आफैलाई स्याबासी देउ "क्या मारा" भन्दै !
Last edited: 01-Oct-12 03:18 PM
its a new marriage, new person, ofcourse its gonna feel new and maybe even wrong. but you should give time to yourself and the relationship to figure out more. you can never know what a person is like completely unless you know them for years. and if you look at him with negativity right away, you will never see his positive sides. try to be neutral and learn about him more. take your time, there is no rush to leave your husband because marriage is not a joke. try everything possible to save the marriage so that if incase it ended breaking up, there is no regrets in your heart and no what if, could have, should haves or maybes...make sure that if you left him, you can say with 100% assurance that you took the right decision. good luck...and lastly nope divorce is NOT WRONG...its a medicine for an infection sometimes.
Take some responsibility. Ask yourself why you married? Give your marriage some time and "try" to make it work. After few years you can get a divorce if situation does not improve.
The moral of this thread. Do not get married until you find a right person no matter how late it becomes 50+. There are only few people in this earth who find a right person at the right time. Marriages are made in heaven. I guess your marriage is not made in heaven.
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