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| don't want to say |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 05:15 PM
why is life unfair?? why is it that every time you try to make the right decision you make a mistake?? why do people fall in love with the wrong person?? why do people give up everything for love?? why are guys abusive?? why can guys never understand?? why are guys so ignorant?? why are family always so supportive and understanding which makes us feel guilty?? why can't guys trust girls when the firl is never doing anything?? why is past such a big issue when people realise and even it is not as big as your partners?? why is there so many questions in life??can anybody answer any questions for me..
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| Dominatrix |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 05:28 PM
Woow...most the questions up there are ones iv dealt with....spooky..
Well, life is undeed unfair......i think it really depends wat approach u take, wat angle ur lookin at, wat kind of attitude u have after, how u coped wiv it...these things which are too important...
For me...watevr sH*t life has thrown at me, i think the best thing i did apart from makin the mistakes, partner bein an ass...etc..i came out stronger n more wiser...n i think i have a rather mature attitude to evrything cz of those unfair sH*ts that happened... instead of bein weak n beaten.. i think u have to rise above it all bravely, as best as u can..it makes u whole lot stronger..n well, the issue of why is life so unfair, well, u just accept it n stop askin that question...even when things don go the right way, u still gota manage to take out somethin positive from it instead of lookin at it negative n havin pessamistic attitude..that shows strengh to have a good attitude..so next time, in future, u will be able to cope wiv potential sH*ts better...
that's all...hope it made sense to ya lot.. ;o)
Wish u the best for life....
Take care!
Domi
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| compulsive_liar |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 05:46 PM
why is life unfair??
You make your own life so if you say life is unfair maybe it's you who is being unfair.
why is it that every time you try to make the right decision you make a mistake??
So that you can learn from your mistakes and laugh about it in future.And if it was the "right decision" then it wouldn't be a mistake.
why do people fall in love with the wrong person??
So when the right person comes along your way you know the value of the person and always treasure him/her.
why do people give up everything for love??
True Love
Why are guys abusive??
Generalizing but some guys can be d*ck heads.And they feel threatened by women so they have to make up for it by abusing her.They want to feel they are in control.
why can guys never understand??
Generalizing twice but guys do understand.BUT it's hard for them to understand emotional stuff as guys don't show their emotions as much as girls.Guys are emotionaly dead.Can say the same thing about girls.
why are guys so ignorant??
Generalizing thrice but just because you know one thing and he doesn't,doesn't mean he is ignorant.And it works both ways.
why are family always so supportive and understanding which makes us feel guilty??
Cause they love you and want to give you all the happiness.One feels guilty when he/she is not doing the right thing.
why can't guys trust girls when the firl is never doing anything??
Cause girls can't keep any secrets.
why is past such a big issue when people realise and even it is not as big as your partners??
Let go of the past.If one is clinging on to the past then maybe that person should see a shrink?
why is there so many questions in life??
Life doesn't have any questions,it's YOU (us humans) who rises the question.
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| south |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 06:07 PM
family is always supportive and understanding to you, because they love you a lot, they always wants to see your progress and they never imagine or want to do some wrong thing as possible as they can. we do nt care much about their suggestion becuase we think we are smart and whatever family do for us we take that as granted.
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| IcedMocha |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 06:48 PM
Why do people want to know everything? Why cant people just let things be? Why does everything have to have an answer?
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| compulsive_liar |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 06:52 PM
why do people want to know everything?
Cause they want to feel they are smart or rather smarter than everyone else around
Why cant people just let things be?
Human nature
Why does everything have to have an answer?
Who says it does?
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| dananah |
Posted
on 29-Jun-04 10:15 PM
topahni!!!....
u hiding here too hehehe.. lucky i checked ;)...:P
Mwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh.... :D
don't want to say oho...so many questions..:S...well all i can is..seems like ur a gal..well u did ask some questions there...where which does make u seem like a gal..;)..
anywys all i gotta say...is well keti haru lai never can understand...so ma chai wont try to understand ur questions..:P
all i hope is that..well..seems like u just went thru some tough shit there..(sorry i guess i havent really experienced those stuffs..so cant really say i empathize with u..guess i have been a bit bit lucky with me life...others dun naajar laaging hai ;)..if not akha nikaleyra...gottti khelchu :P)..things will turn out fine one day..(hope it will..for u..:D)so just stay positive hai..:D...
keta haru lai laat marrooo!!!(if they hurt u..) well anything that hurts u...tini haru lai laat marrrrooooooo!!!!:D...
all th best..:D
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| wateva |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 07:59 AM
why was all this so BORING?
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| daddyz-here |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 08:28 AM
so the question is why?? becuz the sky is very high...DUH :p
but hey compulsive_liar, i very much enjoyed your Dr.Phil like analysis of the big Q why.....BUT i think u sound better when u r more Oprah like....know wat i mean :p
k wateva, its all so borin coz its like enomonic lecture u know, most answers r in the questions itself, but its 8am n the world seems boring...at least it did to me :p
& dont_want_to_say, i'm sure u know the answers to all your questions, u prolly just dont wanna say :p jk but ok with all seriousness, from my own experience, i beleive u're going through a phase in life where u have lots of questions n lot more arising...most of them will be answer by time...so give urself some time n try not to lose ur sleep over it...i wish u well :)
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| meera |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 09:03 AM
Sooooooooooooo many qs. me is confused.
Lemme try to concentrate,
hmmm still confused.
Its best I let go :-)
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| don't want to say |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 09:13 AM
well.. most of the things compulsive liar said makes a lot of sense.. and i have a small question.. as you said us humans are the one who brings all these questions and mistakes.. how can we stop it?? why is it that people who has faced this once in their life are the ones facing it over and over?? why is it not easy to give up your so called love?? why does love hurt when it is supposed to be wonderful?? you might get bored after a while because i have so many questions and you seem to know the answers for it..
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| GurL_Interrupted |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 10:13 AM
Hey babez,
U r questioning, which means u are thinking...& thinking as long as it does not turn into overly compulsive thinking, is always good! Unles, u question, introspect and analyze...u will go about in ur life w/o really understaning the meaning of living? Pardon me here dear, coz I'm thinking out loud as well! Sigh! Come to think of it, isn't life in general a big question mark? I dunno...u dunno what it has in store for us next.
So if life itself is a questionmark, than I would assume, it is nothing for me to question what is a question itself? Hm...!
Second possibility could be, perhaps, you or I am not living the ideal way, we want to. We are not doing things, we would like to be doing as a result, life is not going the way we wish it to...hence you question, I question?
Third perspective to look at this situation could be, not to expect too much 4rm life and things around us! But that doesn't necessarily mean giving the best shot u got in everything in life. U know, love someone, understand someone, be their shoulder for them to lean on and do things unconditionallly w/o expecting anything from them in return. If we could do that, life would have a different meaning...a beautiful one coz then one wouldn't be dissapointed, when others don't treat or love us the way we expect them to? But then, being a human, it is very difficult not to expect, isn't it?
Sum it up, I would say, 'that's life!' Things won't always go the way, u expect it to go. U will have ups and downs when u least want them. U will have many surprises good as well as bad...but the thing is don't let those surprises carry u away! U know, u will do the things u don't want to do and u will not do the things u want to do...u will make mistakes, but the thing is learn 4rm each one of them & make urself a better person!
Sigh! sowwie, I was jus thinking out loud...hope it made some sense to u! I hope u will get answers to ur questions as u walk down life's path!
p.s. Compulsive_liar, u got some good answers :)! But then I'm having a second thought, as they could just be bunch of compulsive lies ;)! J/K! Honest! very good answers :)! U've seen life, haven't u? :)!
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| Riten |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 10:28 AM
Hey original poster,
My advice to you, that is if you are open to one, LOOSE THE LOOSER.
There are plenty of good men. Sure, there can be ups and downs in the relationship, but if you are nice and sincere, there are nice stable men who can and will hold your hand no matter what, with utmost love.
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| jpt |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 12:20 PM
damn it sounds like this girl is talking about me. If its really you, girl, damn I didn't know you were so upset about this whole thing. come and talk to me...i'm sure we'll figure something out.
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| compulsive_liar |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 12:30 PM
as you said us humans are the one who brings all these questions and mistakes.. how can we stop it??
There are different approaches to stop it.One is to ask yourself why.Why do you want to know answers to the questions?All the rishi munis have devoted their entire life asking questions and trying to find an answer but have they?Second is to stop asking yourself too many questions.Live your life and enjoy.It's too short to be worrying about things.Don't think too much about past or future.Live in present.Learn from the past and don't make the same mistake again so that in future you will have a better life.My way is to look for Moksha-salvation.Not be attached to anything or anyone in this world as much as possible.
why is it that people who has faced this once in their life are the ones facing it over and over??
Cause the person hasn't learned from it so the person keeps on making the mistakes again and again.Maybe one should ask oneself "if i have learned from the mistakes i have made so far will i be making the same mistakes?"
why is it not easy to give up your so called love??
Cause you want that person as yours.Selfish?some might say.
Let me give you an example:you see a nice sweet dog(sorry for the comparison) you bring it home,love it for a while than it wants to move away or somebody wants to take it away.Now are you willing to let it go?give up?No you are gonna fight until you know for sure there is no way to get it back.Human nature.
why does love hurt when it is supposed to be wonderful??
I see it as a test,to know for sure whether you love that person or not.Love hurts cause you love the person truely and deeply.If it was just lust you wouldn't be hurt,would you now?And everything in the world has two sides,even love.So love can't always be wonderful or always painful.
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| Ubiquitous |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 12:40 PM
hey don't wanna say, i know u'r having an after effect of break up. But, soon u'll find the one u like, one who cares, one who feels how u feel, one who trusts, one who makes u smile, one who eases your pain, one who'll be there in every high's and low's .. then you'll have your answers. Hope u'll get 'em soon.
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| compulsive_liar |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 03:04 PM
To everyone who has question about love,are you really in love with the person or are you in love with the idea of being in love?
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| EdHunter |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 03:12 PM
why do people think so much... when u think about the happy moments, u feel hurt realising that they are over and u might never be able to experience em agiain...
but then again.. u feel hurt as well when u think abt the sad moments.. cos they left a scar in ur heart that may never heal...
so the question is.. why the bloody hell do we even think abt these things in the first place when it's obvious that it's juz gonna hurt us..
why can;t we stop thinking and move on with life.. release the tensions of life and look foprward to the life ahead of us... have a laid back attitude of life and juz live to be happy.. if onli life was so simple...
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| compulsive_liar |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 03:21 PM
if only life and people were that simple,ed....
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| oys_chill |
Posted
on 30-Jun-04 03:32 PM
My query to the original poster:
....and who told you life was a fairytale? :)
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