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   How do u guys feel about dating through 28-Jun-04 kim
     Hmm, seems like no one cares... 30-Jun-04 kim
       its not the right way to do it....ergono 30-Jun-04 jpt


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kim Posted on 28-Jun-04 02:49 PM

How do u guys feel about dating through chat? When all the other medium of finding a good bf/gf who meets ur expectation fails, does chat works miracle? It is difficult to lead a single life when you are young, beautiful, energetic and ambitious. But it also doesnýt mean you are desperate and end up with any random person you encounter. There were times when dating was mere a fun, indefinite and unpredictable. All that in a sense is as one gets to the maturity, along with his experiences, (s)he becomes more precise about dating. Chat gives an opportunity to meet different kinds of people from different part of the world. Then you start chatting with someone, soon that someone becomes your friend, and eventually romance boosts. Most the time it succeeds, (s)he finds his/her right ones. But other times as you keep on knowing each other more, you find out that (s)he is not the rite one for you. So, half of them end up being just friends and the other half bid goodbye forever. You will take some time to heal the wound. Soon the curiosity of finding the other half haunts you and brings you back to the chat. Some get lucky this time but some fails again. So whatýs next? Should you again waste some more time trying your luck? Does it make one a bad person since unknowingly they hurt one another? Should one stop exploring and wait until the other half finds you?

These are just my thoughts, I wud love to read what others have to say about it. Peace.
kim Posted on 30-Jun-04 01:04 PM

Hmm, seems like no one cares...
jpt Posted on 30-Jun-04 01:38 PM

its not the right way to do it....ergonomical issues...