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| Sonika_NY | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 07:49 PM
The reason I will never marry them: - low status yet try to act smart - short height - drive cheap car - illegals - don't bath/use cheap body spray. I know many of us agree on this but don't like to tell , instead act being nice person here. I am being honest. |
| An Indun Poet | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 08:10 PM
Why don't you find and marry a Nepali girl in Massachusets who is: 1. Tall 2. Drives nice car 3. Smells nice |
| Mussolini | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 09:20 PM
- low status yet try to act smart How about trying to elaborate what this means? Most Nepali guys here ARE dumbasses, but there are a few who are very smart and use common sense. - short height Yeah, and Nepali girls are SOOO tall. Shut up, I bet you're no taller than 4'11". I categorize you into the "low status yet try to act smart" group. - drive cheap car People need to drive expensive cars because a persons personality and nature depends on how much money he shells out for car. Your'e dumb, simple as that. - illegals All the Nepali guys in US are illegals? Way to generalize! I bet you're either illegal or you're in Nepal and jealous of all the Nepali people in the US. - don't bath/use cheap body spray. Oh I didn't realize not using body spray meant you stank. As long as you're not smelling like a vagine, I don't see what the problem is. |
| That's me | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 10:11 PM
shut up!!!!! i got all of ur requirements so can u give me a deep f**k and even marry me if yes, mail me ASAP |
| Jonny_Blaze | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 11:02 PM
harrumpff !! I take offense to your criticism miss sonia. I come from one of the highest status's of Nepal's cream burgeouise society. Due to full nutrition of Kellogs and whole milk at an early age it has caused me to spurt at a towering height of 6'2. This brings me to my next point, since all nepalese guys are short due to malnutrition (Bonvitas a rip off, and just wait till i catch that Horlicks guy), i never grew up in Nepal, i was born and raised here so that ovbiously does not make me illegal. I drive a 2004 BMW 7 Series 760Li with 22 inch chromed sprewell rims... ...on sundays...the rest i do not have time to spell it out, but you get the idea. As for body hygiene, i do not use the commoners choice...Hugo Boss, Davidoff Cool Water, Armani Gio, Ise Miyake, etc...instead every morning i bathe in exotic turkish perfumes annd arabic potpurri, then i douse myself with Japanese herbs and peeled orange leaves for my delicate skin. now how's that for being honest? Or in your style of saying, "i no like tell lie so i tell the trooth because I being nice person." just shits n giggles -jb |
| #$%^*& | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 11:08 PM
Guys cool down. After reading her postings, I have concluded that she is making a deliberate attempt to piss you all. The reason might be either she is having fun or she is seeking some kind of attention. And all of guys are helping her out in her mission by replying to this thread. Why don't you guys get it? She is having a big laugh seeing you all falling into her cheap trap. If you really wanna piss her off, then take my advice: don't reply to this thread and let it die. JUST IGNORE HER ki kaso sonee honey :D |
| Jonny_Blaze | Posted
on 23-Jun-04 11:35 PM
pissed off?...my dear friend i am merely replying in the satirical humor sense as she has done the same. It's all in good fun. your move next wench. -jb |
| MadMax | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 06:04 AM
Yup I am short fat ugly and stupid. But I got a huge DONG. Is that good enough for you Sonika darling? |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 07:01 AM
why is us neplese gurls n boyz against each other, calling each other ugly n $hit ... yo neplese gurlz n boyz , do'nt make war, make love ... peace .... |
| cool_keta | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 08:30 AM
Sonika, I thought you learned your lesson, yet you still try pissing people off. Sonika, not everyone is blessed with gaaanthist dad like yours. Unlike you, they are "smarter", they realize that luxury is not what they came here for leaving all their family and frens aside at home. They know they are here to study to ensure a good career, unlike you who will most probably end of being a outkast slut. Also, about us being short, Sonilka i will tell you this. My Penus alone is so big that it graduated a year before me in high school. It is so huge that you can f%@# and suck on it the same time. Sorry for the harsh words, but you know sidha aaunla ghiu aaundaina. |
| cool_keta | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 08:33 AM
Jhonny Blaze, I like your style. |
| bhole_babaji | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 09:29 AM
I guess no nepali guy would like to marry a girl with a bad attitude like Sonika. if someone does, then he is doomed. A girl like her will be used by some white or black ass is some clubs. they will use and throw her like a toilet paper. |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 09:36 AM
yeah, Sonika_NY, u don't deserve nepali men , u stupid, sadistic, f**King whore ... |
| JagaltayBhoot | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 10:43 AM
Sonika, have u split up with your hunk or what? natra aafnai boyfriend ko baaray ma kullam khulla tyatro bistrit bibaran ta dina nahune ho ni......tyo pani sajha ma........kee kaso? hera, aafnai boyfren ko baaray ma tyasto bidhi pani bhanchan? ani before you tell me.....i am off to get life risani maaf hos ;) jagaltay |
| KickAss | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 11:12 AM
sonika ko pic 
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| netaa_ji | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 12:55 PM
Well, Soknika The notion that you put up over here raises several questions in my head. You argued that you would never marry any nepali guy living in the US based on your impression which were: ##1. low status yet they act smart The thing is you never elaborated on what 'low status' means. There could be several things that may come under the scope of 'low status'. It could be low income (economic)status, or low educational status, or low intellectual status, or low moral and ethical status, or low self steem, or low status of political impotance on major social issues and much more. You didn't clarify yourself and you have generalized to such an extent that your aggument has become very vague and fuzzy however it is well understood from your statement that these Nepali guys in the US (pobably that you came in contact with, otherwise why would you put your impression over here) try to cover up their short commings(whatever it is) by acting smart. To my experience in the US (thought I no longer live in the US, however I did spent time long enough to know them pretty well) it is not a general reality. I meet some pretty bad-ass as well as pretty good ones in all the areas that I mentioned above while being quite a decent fellows. Therefore your argument on this regard is very weak and has very little merit. ##2. On the argument that Nepali guys have body height that are comparatively shorter than their white and black counterparts in the US: I don't know if you have any knowledge of the average body height of Nepali males. I don't have any reliable "stat" or "poll" on this regard but what I know from some sources (though they might not need to be entirely reliable or accurate) is 5 foot 4 inches. There are guys who are 6 "footers" and there are ones who are 4 "footers" however these cases are less common. Anyway what body height of average Nepali males do you expect to be when the average body height of Nepali males is 5' 4". I guess your attitude is questionable over here on this regard. To my understanding it is a typical Nepali attitude when they tavel to the west and discredit the rest of Nepali people on shortcommings of few while they cannot look at themselves see that in fact they are no different than the rest of the pack who have the very same short commings. ##Drive cheap Car: On this reagard, you will see if you come here to Ontario, Canada most Nepali guys don't even drive car or even if they have one they would try to get rid of it. It's simple math of economy. Car unsurance premium is too high. So if you were a student and don't have fat bank balance what would you do ? At least it is easier to get public transportations are more easily accessable in Canada than in the US because more people live in cities in Canada than ever before. In the US, it is not the case so you gotta have a car somehow no matter what .. |
| netaa_ji | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 01:11 PM
Sonika well, seems like you are horribly unprepared to make any case over your argument. chao..good luck |
| confused | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 01:32 PM
Have u all heard one story of Akhbar and Birbal.. ONe day Akhbar oders Birbal to bring him 10 Craziest FOOLs that existed on the city.. SO, Birbal leaves for his journey and comes bak within a month, but with only 8 Fools, and when Akhbar asks where are the other too, he replies "How Can anybody, be BIgger Fool THan you and me Sarkar, u are a fool because u ordered be too search for craziest fools and i am a fool for looking for fools..." hope u all got the point... "Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself" |
| bhole_babaji | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 02:37 PM
nice pictures ? is that the real Sonika_NY ? |
| Sonika_NY | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 04:22 PM
Get life you all . Why it came to you that I am pointing to you in specific and felt offended. If you don't fall in the category, good for you. There is always exception in every cases. Duh. The diverse people residing in USA makes it the country with most outstanding guys and girls as well. Among them, if an average Nepali with short height and akward personality appear unnoticeable is not big deal. I admit myself that I look average before beautiful american girls here. The problem with nepali guys is , they can't accept the truth and try to act like fellow american and look even stupid.This is plain truth and eat it if you can buy it and if you can't buy it, walk away. Vulgarity not intended weirdos.This is a free forum and I am allowed to write my view, if you don;t agree to it, prove your points loosers. ****** Those who thought I started it to seek attention or my image as bad girl, if so, why in a virtual place like sajha. I have many options to explore if that was the intention. Also, what you think I get out of it here ? ****** My hunk ditched me? Burn you all with jealousy, that will never happen. FYI, he was born and raised in USA and I am smart in my moves, I have no time to give fineness to an average nepali who just landed in USA and till he is to my expectation, I would be loosing every fun part. Duh *********** Nepali landing in USA have this false notion that immediately they step here, they are big star and girls will die for them. I am challenging your illusions, there are people like me who will never marry nepali guy in USA, again in general. Already their heights and looks and status is not helping them, their semi-american-semi-nepali attitude worsens it. For example in sajha, what you intelligent people landed in USA do, post a model's pic , include few vulgar words which you learnt from fellow american and make fun out of it for no reason. Is that what you make true Nepali in USA. That makes you gay, in-between ,missing both nepali respect and american open-minded culture. Yes, I will never marry nepali guy in USA, again in general. Swallow your pride and livit' up. Duh Peace Out |
| KickAss | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 04:37 PM
Sonika you can lick my ballssssssssssssssssssssssssssss |
| Banduk_ra_Gulab | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 04:41 PM
Sonica Dear, First of all it seems time for you to change your Tampons....... secondly I do agree with some of your points, having lived here for 16+ yrs, that some of the Nepali guys definitely smell and could use some help in the hygiene & grooming department, as do some kuhireys as well. I sense a typical 'sour grape' story here. Personally with a piss poor attitude like you have, no wonder the 'hunk' dropped you. As far as im concerned, gold-digging bi@tches like you are nothing more than a SPERM RECEPTICLE for me.... You are a textbook definition of an insecure, spoiled lil 'Ho, I would bet if you'd see the size of a guys' wallet, you would be all over them even if they looked like Marich-Man Singh!! |
| bhole_babaji | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 05:04 PM
99 percent of Nepali girls born and raised in US wants to marry a Nepali guy. If someone wants to show off that she owns a porsche (or 1990 ford ) , then it is her problem. No one cares about her car. everyone just cares about her ass. And Sonika is a pretty smart. She won't let her guy run away. She has a chain around his neck. good job. |
| Nepal_mero_desh | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 05:06 PM
Ok Ok Mussolini...aren't you gonna talk abt ureself.. all wel know is that u got dumped by some white guy...if u had chosen a nepal guy..atleast u wouldn't get dumped like that...ya know what i mean...so think before u write something...adios |
| fRank | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 09:47 PM
hasu ki rowu yaaar... beijjat bhayo afnai nepali daju bhai ko... beijjat garyo afnai nepali didi baini aadi ityadi le.. Tara sonikaa jyu le chahi nepali keta haru bata k expect garnu bhayeko ho tyo chahi ajhai prastha bhayena. maaney maile ki nepali keta haru amrica ayera hero huna khojchan. k garney paristhiti ley nai tyasto garidiyeko cha. Nepal ma Amrica ma gayo bhane tanna gorini haru pattauna paeencha bhanne janadharana jo cha..tara mera daju bhai haru amrica ayera sancho kura thaha paye pachi nepali keti haru ko khoji ma lagchan ra nepali keti haru ley nepali keta haru ley khojeka hun tyo dina chahannan.. tara euta prasana.. sonikaa jyu lai nepali keta haru dekhi kina yasto ghrinaa?? abo angreji ma lekhau hai. tyo chahi maile nepali birsya cha ki chaina bhanera herna ko lagee matra ho.. tara expect lai nepali ma k bhancha chahi bhulechu.. k garney.. amrica ayeko ni 3 basha bhaeesakeycha.. yaati chaado 3 barsha bitisakyo tara mann ta mero NEPALI ho.. "The problem with nepali guys is , they can't accept the truth and try to act like fellow american and look even stupid.This is plain truth and eat it if you can buy it and if you can't buy it, walk away." wat is this Truth u are talking about and trying to act like fellow American.. Coming to America .. studying here.. trying to get that H1-B visa. trying to get permanent residency.. aren't there all steps towards assimilating in to the American Culture.. Isn't that how it's always been.. i dont see any reason why we Nepali guys cannot do it.. why can't we try to act like fellow americans if that's the only way to be accepted into this society.. ISn't there already enough hate for brown ppl and Asians in this country that now we hate our own people.. may be u have had a bad encounter with a nepali guy.. but generalizing it towards the entire Nepalese guys in America doesn't do justice to those who are exceptions ... not only to those who are exceptions but to any Nepali at all. why the hate.. where is the love re k... ajha.. Tara i dont see how American or any other guys are different from Nepali Guys.. everyone knows.. all guys one thing from girls and that is sex.. now if u are gonna tell me that it's wrong... then u prolly live in Mars..I dont know if this has anything to do with this thread.. but nevertheless. the point is.. dont hate on nepali guys.. we are here to spread peace... buddha janmya desh bata ayeka chau haami.. shaanti ko pachyaura odhera.. ajha Martian style ma chahi " we come in PEACE!" ani one more thing.. u can't hate us cuz we are poor.. k garney... janma bhayo dharti ko sabai bhanda garib desh ma .. yasma mero k bhool cha .. yasma mera daju bhai ko k bhool cha.. amrica ayera paisa kamauna garho cha.. sabaile bhanya jasto kaam kaha pauchan ra.. sabai le tee CEO jasta paisa kaha kamauchan ra.. mercedes..BMW, jaguar chalauna lai.... Amrica ma ayera pani afno sabhyata kaha bhuleka chau ra.. tara afsos amrica ma basna lai amrican bannai parney.. amrican hunai parney .. amrican bolnai parney. amrican amrican amrican............................ |
| Jonny_Blaze | Posted
on 24-Jun-04 11:11 PM
daaaaamn you guys are really takin it to heart huh.....writing essays and shit..... chill...she don't like nepalese guys, watchu gonna do bout it....she'll always have a lil nepalese in her...one way or the other *wink wink* -jb |
| An Indun Poet | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 12:31 AM
As I suggested, find a Nepali girl with nice piece of ass and get married in Boston. |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 06:44 AM
sonika , ur father is also nepali , so he's a loser too???? math sikney raadii .... |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 06:51 AM
U post ur pic here sonika... if u got guts ...lets see if u're worth talking to ...u talk $hit about neplese guys in US, lets see how u look like to be talking like this ... have u looked at mirror lately ??? post ur pic here biatch !! |
| HairyPotter | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 07:08 AM
Sonika dear, I love your bitchy attitude !! Girls like you turns me on..I am not a "hunk", nor do I drive a BMW, but this I promise , you will never be bored with me.. ;-) |
| Romario | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 08:04 AM
Sonika just a curse! I swear to god, at the end of the day, you will be dying to see a pure nepali guy wth pure Nepali heart. And guess what? At dat time, you will get none coz none of 'em will fall for you. Mario. |
| redstone | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 08:07 AM
I really want to see how this girl look like! She must be hot as hell man! make me fall of the chair the moment i see her face! |
| Casey00 | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 08:49 AM
Well.. Why don't I marry Nepali girls? -- Cuz I am scared that I might end with a bitch like Sonika...Well I can guarantee you that 1% of Nepali chicks are bitches...rest are super nice..super cool. When this post started I was scared that people might give her attention.on .one stupid topic like this..who gives a damn about what Sonika likes or doesnt like?..after all most of us dont seem to agree with her..so leave the sh** alone...let her stink..alone....We dont need to justify abt our preferences and defend our people..cuz we know we dont need to do that...we dont need to stereotype.. P.S Sonika...if u wanna judge some people...go to their face.. and spit it out...dont be a freaking coward and try to piss people .sitting behind the computer...and SORRY ..FOR USING FOUL LANGUAGES... |
| luckydude | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 09:03 AM
sorry sonika_NY, I can't marry you. I am already married, but I do agree with that some Nepali in the USA are f**king proudy (Is that a word? I am not English major anyways). No offense, but especially those who hold green cards. Again, I am not saying that everybody who has a green card are like that, but most people who act like ASS do have green cards. Yes, it could be a coincidence that most Nepali I know who act like sh**head have green cards. Again, I am not judging anybody. But I wouldn't marry any girl who lives in America at all regardless of race or ethnic background. It's just an opinion. I like Nepalese girls who live in Nepal. Nobody is sick or crazy, it's just the way different people look at the same thing in different ways. Luckydude PS: Nice picture of you sonika_NY. Damn, you are hot. |
| AX | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 09:16 AM
girls from NYC rock ;) go SONIKA go!!! |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 09:29 AM
MATH SIKNE RAADII ... KHAI TERO PIC??? DEKHA YAHAN ... |
| JagaltayBhoot | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 09:40 AM
I am very much surprised with the way things are getting serious here.........take it easy guys........... may be she is just a kid .....or just having fun, to add spice to this discussion board.....or may be a guy who is posing himself as a bithcy woman....... even if she is genuinely a girl living in the US, have pity for her attitude instead of vomiting profanity here next time someone says that something is stuffed up your ass, u idiots would be running to the hospital panicking, analysing in the meantime the pros and cons of having something up your ass.....and i would not be surprised, you dickheads :) chill out for a while......... and remember akbar and birbal ( as if i had not made any comments here earlier... ;) ghanta jasto ke comment garai bho ra yo bhanda badhi cheers |
| Romario | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 10:42 AM
Sonika just appears to be a immatured kid to throw comment like that. Once she grows up, she will understand what life is who nepali guys are. Guys don't waste time in this thread. Do something productive. Don't mess around with underage kid, or u will go to jail. Romario. |
| Cool_keta | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 11:30 AM
Geeeez Sonika, Stop Striping GET LIFE GET LIFE GET LIFE. 3========D f*ckin slut |
| chubby_cheeks | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 12:19 PM
oh noo!!! the wicked bitch is back!!!! |
| netaa_ji | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 01:17 PM
Well, Sonika I dont know where do you fit in .........? So, in the end it can concluded that despite your own short commings you have distaste for Nepali guys in general who have the very similar short commings as you do. Well, this reminds me of a Nepali guy who wrote very similar things about Nepali girs (in general) in Sajha couple of weeks ago and received heavy poundings from Nepali guys. The guy who wrote those notes about the Nepali girls could not ever resurface and make his point because he didnt have any. By the way, with such a negative attitue will any Nepali guy wanna marry you...even if someone does...he should be proclaimed as either the one of the most compassionate person if not he is the most foolish one. Good day girl....... |
| Mussolini | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 01:53 PM
She's sexualy frustrated. Someone lend your penis to her. Stick it in her nose. |
| KickAss | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 02:26 PM
this fuking bitch really pissed me off. can somebody tell me what' her real name? i know she is from newyork, i will go to her hourse and kick her ass. |
| Ram Prasad | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 05:26 PM
Man....I was pissed off when I read this thread at first....and after 3,4 days back, I logged back in and I see all this.....anyway.... That's why I am going back to Nepal and getting married b'coz of such a nasty attitude like Sonika_NY. After they land here in US, they think that they are from whole different world. I have heard a truth here sometime back that a guy married a girl out here. Both Nepali...after sometime she "ran away" with black dude....I don't know what was the deal....Black dude "used" her big time and left her like a trash.....finally....she was begging to come back.....Attitude like Sonika's will end up in the same story.... Overall....no matter what....NEPALI GUYS WILL ONLY UNDERSTAND NEPALI GIRLS.....So chill out.....and don't throw stone at Nepali guys out here..... Peace out..... Ram Prasad |
| Banduk_ra_Gulab | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 06:18 PM
I would bet you guys $100 shes atleast 30 pounds over weight, and short and stalky, and has extreme case of low self esteem. Thats their way to get back at guys who only call her for a Booty call and treat her like a SPERM DONATION BOX, because that's all she it. Im sure quote a few Nepali guys have banged the living sh!t out of her, that's why the attitude. But you know what, we need sl*ts like these everywhere, otherwise who else you gonna call at 1AM when you're drunk and need a quick release!!!!! |
| An Indun Poet | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 06:49 PM
She is DUDE LOOKS LIKE A LADY YAH YAH YAH! |
| Shaddy_CLowN | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 08:55 PM
To Sonika from NY How can you say us nep guys are wanna be americans when ur judging us nepali guys and degrading us.. you must be a wannabe Puerto Rican from the ghettos of NY.. Sonika.. money, car and status isn't whats important but the love and the heart he/she has.. plus us nepalese are better.. thats what i think.. and Sonika.. ur not special urself having to need a guy with all those credentials.. if i had a ferarri a million dollar job.. u'd b the one singing me love songs and pampering me.. so think.. go for the good one not the bad one hehe.. i happen to be the good one re kya.. tara m booked.. JONNY BLAZE BRO U ROCK.. I NEED A RIDE ON UR BMW TO HARVARD SQ. ASAP.. HEHE take care all SHADY CLOWN |
| confused | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 10:03 PM
haha what an idiot..not Sonika but all the ppl who spend their time replying to this thread ..including me.. hahaha maan...how stupid can we all be to even post replies on these kind a post..it seems like, our Sajhaties Really seem to CAREE abt SOnika..now.. if that wasnt the case then...there wouldnt be 1963 Views and 47 posts on this stupid piece of crap... Sonika BABe u Rock!!! Seems like Sajhaties cant get you out of their head...Esp.. Guys..! u ROCK!! and yah i wud surely like to have a ride in ur car...if its possible... pluse ..Sonika if u get into bussiness u will top Bill gates.. |
| saibaba_exposed | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 10:08 PM
The reason why Sonika's UGLY MOTHER married her MOTHERFCUKER NEPALESE DAD - low status yet try to act smart - short height - drive cheap car - illegals - don't bath/use cheap body spray. I know many of us agree on this but don't like to tell , instead act being nice person here. I am being honest too Sonkia dear. Bitch is suffering from Major Inferior Complex. That's why she is better off sucking American D!CK. Go fcuk your dad since no other Nepalese guys are fcuking your stinky-sold-out-Ratna-park-pussy. |
| saibaba_exposed | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 10:15 PM
www.exbaba.com |
| Lokman | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 10:38 PM
Oh No! I am going to be a bachelor all my life then, because you are the only girl on the planet. What a distressing revelation indeed!!! I almost had a heart attack. *rolls eyes* Jeez... Good job, I am in Nepal. |
| Gangaakarki | Posted
on 25-Jun-04 11:26 PM
I am sure sonika is talking about herself. here is a picture of a typical nepali girl like sonika_NY http://www.kantipuronline.com/saptahic_html/sapposter.jpg Vertically ( height) Challenged and horizontally impaired Shape Size and irregular texture, monomorphic,albinism strudded,klefelter's syndrome,ummmm......Down's Syndrome would still not be an appropriate description of her. should I draw a floral diagram as well? Geeeeeeeeeeee........ |
| Casey00 | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 07:48 AM
Well said...CONFUSED!!! She is just here to stir some trouble..and thats it...well let the bitch alone and not give that attention she crazily craves... peace. |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 07:50 AM
YO MATH SIKNEY RAADI LAI PAYO BHANE NI ..... MATH SIKNEY .... KHAI TERO PIC CHANDALEEE .... DEKHA .... NO GUTS HUH SONIKA .... I SPIT ON UR FACE .... |
| cool_keta | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 11:01 AM
Okay then, nobody post after this thread. |
| ProudNepali | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 05:56 PM
okkkkkkkkkkk........ just wanted to say okiee.. By the way MY BRO SHADY CLOWN IS ABsolutely correct. Love and Heart is important. Yeahh heeeeeeeeeey I learnt a lesson from my Brother. Keep it up bro.. Oh yeah...... JB can you please pick me up on your way to COnway park? I love to have the ride on your new CADDY................... i meant BMW. Confused bro............ Tell You one thing... Promie you won't tell it to anyone else first.... ot's a secret bro. So many people VIEW this posting ... not because of their interest in SONica.... is it SONYCA... or what?? damn who cares what her nick ???? what I were saying is So many people (mostly guys) view this posting .. not because of their interest in SONykya.... But it's because of her pic..... don't you think so??? ............ yeah ........ yeah.... I hear you. Besides I am not a fan of NY at all... Chill out ppl.. It's a good day for fishing.. I am out. Peace Jai Nepal |
| Sonika_NY | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 06:04 PM
Can't believe how the bitter reality hit the bull's eye and it was question of their male ego and they are spitting it with vulgarity. If it was something false spoken, you would have brought the topics and support it with your points to prove wrong, not some cheap comments like what Kickass and killerbuzz are making. So I am underage now?, if aged and matured ones act so stupid to prove your points, I am much happier being underage. *********** Do you understand what I meant when I said, I would never marry Nepali guys in USA? You matured and intelligent claiming people thought , oh she hates nepali so much, right? did't realise what that really means? Nepali guys in USA think they have achieved everything to marry a girl since they already stepped here. NO. Just by stepping here and copying few accents from fellow whites doesnt make you new born star. When I said , they don't bath and use cheap colognes, I meant they try to appear they look cool without cleaning themselves. Do you even can make sense out of it? When I said, they try cheap cars and low status doesnt mean they actually have one, but inspite knowing where they are coming from and where they actaully belong to, they think they are on top levels for a girl to choose them to get married with. You can't understand plain sentence and make sense out of it, how can you imply to your lifes. I challenge your male ego, if you think you are best of the best, prove your points instead swearing in a public forum like Sajha ********** You all are so poor and immatured in your thinking that I want to add one more point why I don't like to marry nepali guy in USA. Yes. They can't make sense of what one is talking about. Lack humors, don't look at own face before pointing at others, and the list goes on ******* An advice for you all, Ethics 101. Peace Out |
| Romanticated | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 06:45 PM
ýAsian men start questioning their identity" On Friday night U.C. Berkeleyýs fraternity row whirls with activities. Music beats from within the houses, echoing out into the dark streets while women wearing tight tank tops -- despite the January chill -- prowl the scene. Lambda Phi Epsilon house sits on Warring Street, overshadowed by the more impressive two-story frat houses that surround it. But red, blinking lights strung across its awning, the murmur of chatter, and the sounds of pulsating music indicate a party. Inside, beer is plentiful. Young, testosterone-driven men, wearing hip-hop style, baggy jeans and loose T-shirts or ýwife-beatersý scurry to prepare for the mob expected to arrive after 10 p.m. The women, not quite relaxed yet, keep to themselves on one side of the room, while the guys check them out. But in a few hours -- once the beer kicks in -- the sexes will mingle, couples will find each other, and temporary bonds will form. The scene is a familiar one for Calýs elite fraternity society, in which white males comprise the majority of brothers in the campusý 38 sponsored fraternities, despite the universityýs 40-percent Asian American enrollment. At Lambda Phi Epsilon, however, all the members are Asian American. And on Friday, none of the party-goers cross that color line. Korean American Raymond Kim, who helped organize the party, says that when it comes to coupling up, only Asian women will do. And up until a couple years ago, when he saw an Asian woman with a white man, his instinctive reaction was ýsell-out.ý ýItýs definitely harder for an Asian male to date a white female than for Asian females to date white males,ý Kim says. ýAsian males are not portrayed as masculine, whereas Asian females are stereotyped as submissive, exotic.ý The 22-year-old thinks that Asian American women in general have an easier time assimilating into the mainstream. While interviewing for a job with a consulting company, Kim, a senior, says that out of 60 finalists for employment, 15 Asian American women made the cut -- heýs the only Asian man. ýIn the first round, there were a lot of Asian males. White males would prefer hiring and working with Asian females over Asian males.ý During his freshman year, Kim dated a white woman. The relationship gained him respect from his Asian American male friends, he says, admitting that one of the reasons he went out with her ýwas a status thing.ý And up until a couple years ago, he was impressed when he saw Asian man with a white woman. ýI thought, ýall right, heýs got a white girlfriend.ýý Fellow Lambda brother Kelvin Lin, 22, also prefers to date Asian American women. He notices subtle differences in how Asian women are treated as opposed to their white counterparts, especially by his non-Asian American peers. When he goes to clubs with his white friends, Lin says, he notices theyýre more confident with Asian women, and their comments tend to have more sexual connotations. ýWhen they see an Asian girl, they say things like, ýI want to get with her,ýý Lin explains. ýBut when they see a Caucasian woman, they make more subtle comments like, ýOh, sheýs pretty.ýý Though Lin feels uneasy when he sees an Asian woman dating a white man, he says he feels ýguilty ý for judging the relationship based on stereotypes and his past experiences. Now, he tries not to be so critical. ýAs long as the guy is treating her right, I have no problem with interracial dating,ý Lin concludes. Continue........ |
| Romanticated | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 06:46 PM
Asian women are sexualized, men are desexualized and neuteredý Not all Asian American males are that understanding, however. Curtiss Takada Rooks, an assistant professor of Asian American Studies at San Jose State University, says there is a sense of Asian American male frustration as Asian American women continue to outmarry at higher rates than Asian American men, and media bombards society with images of Asian men as either ýstern and misogynistý or ýeffeminate and nerdy.ý ýAsian American male frustration is not a myth,ý Rooks says. ýThe frustration, however, is not so much based on marrying out, but rather on the reason women are marrying out. Asian American men feel dismissed by Asian American women, not for who they are, but for what society says they are.ý Social scientists who have studied this phenomenon have found that Asian American women are, in fact, more likely to outmarry. The most recent statistics from the 1990 Census show that Asian American women are almost twice as likely to outmarry than Asian American men. In California, 7.7 percent of the males were married to whites, compared to 16.2 percent of the women. ýThat is a huge difference,ý says Larry Shinagawa, an Asian American studies professor at Sonoma State University. ýAsian men tend to marry inter-ethnically; second- and third- generation men tend to marry first- and second-generation women.ý But those statistics donýt tell the whole story. What Shinagawa and others are also finding is that the outmarriage gap between U.S.-born men and women is closing. Indeed, statistics in California show18.9 percent of native-born Asian American males were married to white females, whereas 24.8 percent of native-born Asian American females were married to white males. Nationwide, U.S-born American males were more than four times as likely as foreign-born Asian males to outmarry. More and more, the outmarriage issue is forcing discussions, calling into question race, purity and the changing definition of what it is to be Asian American, says Rooks. ýAsian American males, trying to find their place in this changing society, are impacted by external factors,ý he elaborates. ýThis is not simply an Asian American male versus female issue. It becomes a family and community issue; the community has to deal with their own prejudices and recognize the community is changing. ýAsian American females and males need to discuss these issues, understanding each otherýs strengths rather than emphasizing the weaknesses derived from mainstream images.ý Historically, anti-Asian laws, while robbing all Chinese Americans of their dignity, have dealt a particularly hard blow to men. The Exclusion Act in the 1870s and early 20th century, for example, prevented Chinese laborers from bringing their wives to the United States. By 1900, it is estimated that men outnumbered women by 26 to 1; Chinatowns were bachelor societies, where often men gambled and visited prostitutes. In the media, the Asian immigrants were labeled the ýyellow perilý -- a marginalized group characterized as having perverted lifestyles and lacking family values. Negative media images followed. In 1929, the English author Sax Rohmer wrote the The Mysterious Dr. Fu Manchu, characterizing Asians as villains. Meanwhile, Asian females were often paired with white males in such productions as Madame Butterfly, Sayonara and The World of Suzie Wong -- wrote Doobo Shim in 1998. Gender differences often determine how Asian Americans interpret these images. Shinagawa gives the example of The Joy Luck Club, a movie he shows to his Asian American students. He says women in his class tend to view the film as a mother-daughter bonding movie, whereas the men are often disturbed by its ýmyopic view of Chinese men. Asian American men are sick of that movie. It presents the men in such jaded ways, as only concentrating on money,ý explains Shinagawa. ýComparatively, Asian women are sexualized; men are desexualized and neutered,ý says filmmaker Steven Okazaki, who wrote and produced American Sons, a movie that examines Asian American masculinity. ýThese characters have very offensive effects on Asian men and women and on how others see Asian men. Weýre in a more enlightened era, yet a lot of those negative images are out there, offensive stereotypes of buck-toothed, nerdy variations. These havenýt changed. To give Asian men hearts and souls and sexuality is threatening in this culture.ý Continue...... |
| Romanticated | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 06:47 PM
Mating habits These stereotypes created by mainstream society and media, Rooks says, impact the way people, including Asian American women, view Asian males. ýMany Asian males think women are not dating them because they are judged based on stereotypes they canýt control,ý Rooks explains, ýand that white males are going out with Asian females because of stereotypes that they are exotic and skilled in the sexual arts, rather than for who they are as individuals.ý Rooksý Asian American male students have said that theyýve been rejected by Asian American women who complain that Asian males ýarenýt spontaneous; they donýt laugh; they arenýt tall,ý according to Rooks. ýAsian men start questioning their identity. Theyýre asking themselves why they canýt get a date, ýIs it because Iým Japanese American, Korean American, because of the negative stereotypes, or because Iým a jerk?ýý Thereýs also a feeling that women are ýmarrying up and out,ý Rooks says. Gordon Milton, who published Assimilation in American Life in 1964, believed intermarriage signified assimilation, as subordinate groups adopted the dominate groupsý culture. ýConservative theory of the 1960s and ý70s said that women outmarried as part of the assimilation process,ý Rooks says. ýWomen move first by marrying the men who have the power to marry those they conquer.ý ýThis isnýt an Asian male society. Whites have access to any sexual relationship they wish,ý says Shinagawa, who gives the example of his sister-in-law who was recently approached by a white male. First the man said to her ýKonichi-waý [hello in Japanese]. After getting no response, he said, ýAhn young ha sae yoý [hello in Korean]. She finally felt obliged to say, ýOh, thatýs good.ý And he immediately talked on and on to her. ýAsian American women get used to that,ý Shinagawa says. ýIýve heard variations of this story told over and over by different women. Thatýs white privilege, being able to look at color, language, race and not the person. ýWhat if my [Asian American] student sees a good-looking white woman and asks her, ýAre you English? German? Italian?ý It would be totally out of context. He would have no privilege to do that.ý ýWhatýs wrong with me?ý Sam Lau, 26, has witnessed that privileged mentality. While a student at University of Wisconsin, he met a few white men who he believes had Asian fetishes. ýThey didnýt care about the girlsý looks as long as they had long hair and were petite.ý Lau says some of these men would go to extreme measures to meet Asian women. ýI took some Japanese and Chinese classes,ý Lau continues. ýA lot of white people take those classes because they are interested in the language and culture -- but mainly as a means to meet the women.ý Lau even knew of one man who worked in a bar patronized mainly by Asian Americans so he could meet women. ýI got the feeling it was borderline stalking,ý Lau says. ýTo see them in action is kind of freaky. You see it in their eyes when they look at Asian girls. They see an Asian girl and they perk up.ý Lau, himself, has dated non-Asian women. Growing up, he didnýt know any Asians except for his family and family friends. Later on, however, he found he had more in common with Asian American women. When dating one white woman, he felt a particularly strong cultural gap. ýAsians hold family in higher regard,ý Lau says. ýWhen my grandfather got sick I stayed at home more and spent less time with her. She complained, saying I hardly knew my grandfather. But he was my motherýs dad. I wanted to be there for my mom. She couldnýt understand that.ý Now living in California, he has become friends with many Asian Americans, who, he says, ýhave problemsý with Asian women dating white men. ýA lot of Asian guys feel they canýt get white girls because they wouldnýt find them attractive,ý Lau says. ýWhen the guys see Asian girls who only like white guys, it makes them feel ****ty. ýI can see where theyýre coming from. There are some guys who are at the stage where theyýre wondering, ýWhatýs wrong with me?ýý Continue..... |
| Romanticated | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 06:47 PM
the standard is white At 5ý 10ý and with what he calls ýwhite features,ý Phil Chow does not consider himself an average-looking Asian guy. In fact, more than a few people -- both Chinese and white -- have assumed he is Eurasian. But whenever Chow is rejected by an Asian woman, he suspects itýs because heýs Chinese. ýI always seem to meet attractive Asian women who turn me down for stereotypical reasons,ý Chow reasons. Chow, who is Canadian, didnýt realize he had a unique look, however, until he was in college. The turning point, he says, came on the day he went to eat at a Vietnamese-French restaurant. ýI noticed the waitresses staring at me,ý Chow says. ýOne came over to take my order and asked if I were a Westerner.ý Amused, he went back to the dorms and told some of his fellow students. ýThey thought I was part white, too. It was the first time I realized people thought I was half.ý But his ýwhite featuresý havenýt helped him get dates. Most of the Asian women he meets would rather date white men, Chow says. Six years ago he dated a Chinese woman who admitted to him that she ýdidnýt go out with Chinese men because they werenýt tall enough.ý ýI told her she was bull-****ting, that not being tall enough was an excuse,ý Chow says. ýI told her she was ashamed of being Asian. ýShe said, ýWell, you guys have small penises.ý ýI said, ýYou have pancake tits.ý ýThen she said, ýI bet you havenýt gone out with a white woman.ý When I told her I had, she looked at me and said, ýYeah, I guess you could go out with a white woman.ý ýShe implied the standard is white. If youýre attractive enough to go out with a white woman, youýve made it,ý Chow says, explaining that because he looks white, the woman thought it was more credible that he had dated white women. But that wasnýt the last disastrous date with an Asian woman. Last summer, Chow went out with another Chinese woman who told him she didnýt want to continue the relationship because he was too quiet. ýI was quiet growing up, but once I got to college I gained more confidence,ý Chow says. ýI was wondering if it was just an excuse. Her last boyfriend was white and I thought she turned me down because she prefers white men.ý Chow has also dated white women, but they treat him as the ýexceptioný -- good-looking enough to date, he explains. ýIýve dispelled some of their assumptions about Asian men. Most were uncomfortable to go out with Asian men. But because I look part white, Iým marginally accepted. But I have conflicting feelings because Iým Chinese and proud of it.ý Much of what Chow calls his insecurity stems from his upbringing in a working-class neighborhood in Victoria, Canada. In junior high school, as the only Asian, Chow said he was the target of racial epithets and attacks. To escape the torment, Chow transferred to a high school with a larger Asian population, but by that time, he says, he already had low self esteem. ýI was quiet from the 6th to 10th grades,ý Chow remembers. ýI thought the other Chinese students would be like me, but they didnýt get picked on like me. My personality was already set -- I was a loner, quieter than the average Chinese.ý breaking stereotypes Lambda fraternity brothers Kim and Lin never experienced that kind of insecurity. Kim went to a high school in Cerritos, Calif., where he estimates 60 percent of the student body was Asian American. Lin attended a predominately white and Asian high school in Santa Monica, Calif. Both excelled in sports. Lin bench presses 300 pounds. ýIým comfortable with my body image,ý he says. Kim played baseball in high school. He recalls that when his mostly-minority team competed, they had to prove themselves. ýThe other teams would be like, ýWho are these guys?ýý says Kim. But that type of confrontation drove him. ýI love breaking stereotypes.ý On Friday, both Lin and Kim stand outside the entrance to Lambda Phi Epsilonýs house, guarding against uninvited intruders. Inside, petite girls with long, black hair dance on tables. Strobe lights flutter -- and the night is still young. ýA party without girls would be pointless,ý says Kim, who adds he doesnýt know how many couples will get together later on in the night. ýMost of us know each other here so we try to keep things behind closed doors.ý Kim and Lin appear confident in their identities and have grown to appreciate the diversity within the Asian American community. ýNow, Iým happy,ý Kim says. ýSome women who prefer to date white males grew up in all white neighborhoods and adopted their culture. They donýt see themselves as Asian. I try to understand. College has been a real eye-opening experience.ý Through Lambda, Kim says he has gotten to know Asian Americans from many different ethnic backgrounds. Similarly, Lin says heýs dated all different types of Asian Americans, including Vietnamese, Laotian, Chinese and Korean women. The two are representative of a larger trend, in which more Asian Americans are dating and marrying inter-ethnically. In fact, from 1980 to 1990, marriages between Asian Americans of different ethnic backgrounds have doubled from 11 percent to 21 percent, according to a 1998 study. ýThereýs been a notable increase in inter-ethnic marriages, in part because younger generations have a sense of ownership of their Asian American identities,ý say San Jose State University professor Rooks. ýAnd there are more venues to reach each other across the lines of each Asian American group. They recognize a cultural comfort despite ethnic differences.ý |
| Badmash | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 07:45 PM
My my.. A deficient remark by a lightheaded nympho! But the worse part is that 20 or so others jumped to post even more mononic answers to their defense just to prove her point. What a shame! But it seems not all are short-sighted punks. Romanticated, enjoyed reading much. Take that for answer Sonika NY. For you, I suggest logic 101. Ethics, it seems, will be incomprehensible to you! |
| That's me | Posted
on 26-Jun-04 11:49 PM
hey Sonika_NY U r more than Fahrenheit 9/11 for Bush to those guys who u talking about |
| Nattu | Posted
on 27-Jun-04 05:53 AM
You guys are pathetic whiners. If guys you were truly confident about yourself and are not like Sonika_NY described, then you wouldn't be posting nasty replies and calling her names. I don't know about you guys but for me, if some hot chic comes to me and says " Hey dude, you suck bigtime" for no reason ( cuz there NEVER was any sucking invloved whatsoever.....I promise ), then I would dismiss her claim right there and then by NOT REPLYING cuz it is totally irelevant to me. On the other hand, if there was indeed some sucking invloved in our past, then I would find her accusation ( tyo pani....in front of my fiance) very offensive and I would start defending myself like most of you did here by calling NAMES. Oooops, we have the winner here.................kILLERbUuz :-) |
| JagaltayBhoot | Posted
on 27-Jun-04 06:06 AM
ek jana le euta phokatya statement rakhe pachi tyasma lamba chauda byakhya ra baadbiwaad, justification, analysis and what not........wayihyat........... and one more thing..........is it only me that has noticed that wherever you go in sajha, you always get followed by this big word called "GENERALIZATION"???? of course you smart analytical dudes, when it is said that it is hot in summer, it does not mean that it is ALWAYS hot in summer....sometimes or most of the time, it may rain and the climate may be just right too. Learn to use common sense mates; otherwise every single language in English, or nepali or any other language for that matter would require to be followed by the words "in general" so that they do not get haunted and traumatized by your big word called "generalization" as for me, this is the last time i even bother to look at this thread for good have a nice day, everyone |
| cool_keta | Posted
on 27-Jun-04 07:38 PM
Are you outkast or something? |
| cool_keta | Posted
on 27-Jun-04 07:38 PM
Sonika, i just have 1 question for you. PLease answer seriosuly. Why are your posts always about nihu khojne? Why cant you just along with all of us? |
| g-unit | Posted
on 27-Jun-04 08:35 PM
GOOD ONE SONIKA!!!!!!!! U GO GIRL!! BEAT THE SHIT OF THESE PEEPS... |
| ProudNepali | Posted
on 27-Jun-04 08:58 PM
I know White guys...... not just White but of different colors and origins (the College students.. and some of them are really smart also) who don't take showers for bunch of days... oh forget about the shower... they don't even brush their teeth or wash their faces.... and attend their lectures... go to jobs. Don't be confused when I bring this issue out..... those folks didn't do those daily activities not beacause they were busy.. but because they were simply too lazy or didn't care about it.. or why? I don't know.. but they have been just like that for over 3 years.... (since the time I have known them .) IF you (anyone) wish! COme down to Beantown and I can direct you to them right away. To the contrary....... I have not known any Nepali Brothers who leave their homes/apartments uncleaned. In fact Nepalese brothers are more conscious about their outer appearances than the folks of other colors and origins.Sonykkaaa.. you must be dreaming while you were making so "Hypothetical" accusations against the brothers of your own origin. Miss Sonykaaa or something.... Do you believe you really know what you are talking about????? Honesty will say NO but ego and low self-esteem will say yes. I can feel it. Do you even realize None cares about what other eats/wears/does? here in US?? unless someone has anything to do with him/her?? So what is your problem now?? Or is it you who is trying to ACt Smart??? despite your (the imppression is) low status (don't ask me the definition of status or what kinda status???? I am borrowing your tongue for the heck of it only.) By the way.... do you assume people make corrections for granted? Just because you typed something stupid doesn't mean we have to take your "hypothesis" as real. Come on chill out....... you are, what you speak! for the sake of internet.. what you type?? So if you were in my position will you say that (taking the examples of some of the folks from my college) You aren't gonna marry any men?? Girl you just missed your point. Instead of posting something like : "NEPALI GUYS IN USA Posted on 06-23-04 7:49 PM Reply | Notify Admin the reason I will never marry them: - low status yet try to act smart - short height - drive cheap car - illegals - don't bath/use cheap body spray. I know many of us agree on this but don't like to tell , instead act being nice person here. I am being honest." you should have posted something like: (just an alternation) The types of men I will never marry (oh....by the way how many times does one marry??) - low status yet try to act smart - short height - drive cheap car - illegals - don't bath/use cheap body spray even thoough the above reasons (if they can be called so) are not perfect in terms of vocabulary and organization ..... we would have understood that you were making an honest opinion about your own choice. But your own stupidity (or is it insanity?) put you against the Nepali folks here in SAjha. So it's the right opportunity to make the coRREction my dear... or you will never recover from your MISTAKE. Time to chill out. Jai Nepal |
| kILLERbUZz | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 07:36 AM
I want to meet this Sonika face to face man ... lets see what she got ... mu jee , mero comment cheap bha re tyaslai ... where's ur pic ??? did u post ur pic yet miss perfect ???? grow up kid ... just coz u live with ur parents and got nottin to worry about, u write all these $hitZ about ur own people... think about it ... ur father is also a nepali ... who knows what ur father did and had to go thru to bring u in front of that computer u use to type up all those words ... who knows, ur father might be short, he might had to drive cheap cars to goto work to pay those bills until he got a good paying job, he might have been so busy that he might have missed some showers ...he might have done evrything possible to get a legal status to stay here in US so that he cud raise his daughter here in US and watch her grow up and make him proud one day....but look what u did lil' girl ...u made ur short dad who used to drive cheap cars and used to take shower once a month full of shame gurl ... so don't just type of those words which comes back to u aight ... we nepali sud not be lashing one another with negative vibes ... we sud watch each others back instead so that we neplese can be secure and as proud as we were in NEpal .... aight then lil gurl, i hope u'll realize that what u said MIGHT be true to some (like ur dad), and those to whom its true, its RUDE gurl ... u can't get away when u tell an ugly a$$ mutha fckuer that u're ugly , they'll get pissed and wanna have revenge, and its not rite to do that aight ....aight, enough now, u take a deep breath now and go back to ur life ... and i hope i won't have to use bad words to u from now on .... PeACE ............. |
| JazzyBeLLe | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 07:57 AM
who's this nepali guy from USA she keeps referring to? |
| JazzyBeLLe | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 09:40 AM
Most of the nepali guys i've met from n. america have been very shy, sensitive and very caring. I''ve only met few arrogant ones , the ones who loves to flaunt their parents money and the ones that act like they can't speak nepali. |
| Lokman | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 09:52 AM
Just couldn't read and not reply. Sonika, or whoever you are, you are just evil. Male ego?? what is that? what are you on about? your imagination seems have gone into overdrive. I think it's plain rude to speak contemptously of a select group of people in a public forum. You seem to have zero respect to fellow nepalese living in america. Well, you are entitled to your opinion, but could you keep it to yourself. Is it ok if I say to some random girl walking on the street that she is hideously ugly just because I don't find her attractive? No, noone in his/her right frame of mind would do that. It's just rude to do so. It's just basic ettiquettes really. Besides, the world does not revolve around you. Who cares who you want to get married to? I did not even know you existed until I stumbled upon this thread. So there. And guys, can we avoid profanity and swear words ???? |
| AX | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 11:49 AM
Whoever badmouthing Sonika_NY, they must fall low status yet try to act smart, short height, drive cheap car, illegals, don't bath/use cheap body spray categories as she described. if you don't fall in those categories (like myself' :p) stop bashing her Sonika_NY ROCKS |
| Rekha | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 11:55 AM
Oh come on guys STOP IT. Enough is enough. Everyone has right to express thier opinion, I understand that but it doesn't mean you have to put down someone else. Sonkia Girl you might not like NEPALIL MEN in US but that doesn't mean you should DISS them by saying " low status yet try to act smart - short height - drive cheap car - illegals - don't bath/use cheap body spray". I know that how you feel but be a little considerate of others. You might not notice but not every nepali guy in US is like that. Some go to college and work and they barely have time to cook and clean, on top of that mostly many students have DEBTS and they can't afford to spend much time getting dressed and spening money on perfumes, nice cars. Girl come on be a little realistic now, not every nepali guys are illegal. Many of them are like I said students and they have student visa. Some might be illegal but not majority. I have many nepali guy friends in US and I know not many of them are illegal. Lets talk about height, have you ever heard a thing called GENETICS. Many Nepali guys are not as tall as lets say AMERICANS because it's GENE, it's not their fault if they are short. You might want to go to ANA and attend Basketball Game and you'll see that Nepali guys in US are pretty tall. In my opinion Nepali guys in US are great. I have a boyfriend who is a student and working currently and I would not leave him in any cost. I love him and he's the greatest guy ever and I'm lucky to have him in my life. If I had stereotyped Nepali guys like you then I would not be with my boyfriend and I would not have many great nepali guy friend like I do now. Sonika girl I have nothing against you and I'm sorry if I have offended you in any way but girl just be a little open minded and think out the box (not Taco Bell commercial), he he he .......................Peace out.................. |
| icedmocha | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 07:21 PM
actually this was fun to read.. Mayb she's just having fun too.. u kno by pushin ppls button.. and u guys fell for it.. haha..forreal..she should do it more often.. |
| An Indun Poet | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 08:05 PM
Rekha!! Yeah, everyone has the right to their opinion, I second that. I think Ms NY is a guy with a tiny winnie. |
| Sonika_NY | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 08:13 PM
I can see the wrath these people are having here. Nepali guys is USA sucks, Thats all I have to say. Get life you all Peace Out |
| Sonika_NY | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 08:20 PM
AX thankyou , you are my kind of person. |
| #$%^*& | Posted
on 28-Jun-04 11:14 PM
Soniya dear, I feel honored to announce that I am your greatest fan here in sajhaland. You are the reason I visit sajha so often these days. Just ignore these losers and keep posting. You certainly rock babe. NYC is proud to have you. ;) |
| PLAYA | Posted
on 29-Jun-04 07:30 AM
WHT ABT NEPALI GUYS IN UK???? |
| momo_cha | Posted
on 29-Jun-04 12:44 PM
I like big butts and I can not lie You other brothers can't deny That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waste And a round thing in your face You get sprung!!!!!!! Wanna pull up front Cuz you notice that butt was stuffed Deep in the jeans she's wearing I'm hooked and I can't stop staring Oh, baby I wanna get with ya And take your picture My homeboys tried to warn me But with that butt you got Me so horny Ooh, rub all of that smooth skin You say you wanna get in my Benz Well use me, use me cuz you ain't that average groupy |
| SaiBaba_exposed | Posted
on 29-Jun-04 09:05 PM
www.exbaba.com Must visit site for all the Sai Baba devotees. |